June 11, 2012
Demonstrative Communication Essay
Demonstrative communication is the process of sending and receiving information without the use of words. Instead of using words demonstrative communication includes things like facial expressions, tone of voice, and body language. The key to effective communication is a mutual understanding of the information shared by each party involved. I will explain demonstrative communication by providing examples of how it can be effective or ineffective, positive or negative, and how it is used to replace or in the place of one’s verbal communication skills for the receiver and the sender. I will focus on describing nonverbal and demonstrative communications, furthermore, I will also explain how demonstrative communication involves listening and responding. First, a brief description of communication and its role according to dictionary.com communication is simply the imparting or interchanging thoughts, opinions, or information by speech, writing, or signs. Communications can be expressed in three different ways, and they are verbal, nonverbal, and visual. Verbal communication is when we use our voices to deliver our thoughts, opinions, or information. Nonverbal is where you encode your ideas without words which I will illustrate later in the discussion. Some examples of non-verbal communications are smiling, nodding your head, waving your hand or even tapping your feet are all considered forms of non-verbal communications. Last, visual communications is part of the nonverbal communications that I will be using to explain the use of demonstrative communication. Visual communications is the most complex communication of them all because with visual communications what you see can sometimes be deceiving or mistaken. Visual communications can consist of face-to-face interaction, which can include things like appearance, gestures, eye contact, body language, and facial expressions are some common forms. According to Endress (2008-2011) “Research has shown that 93% of communication is non-verbal.” Nonverbal communication consists of things such as clothing, appearance, posture, facial expressions, eye contact, touch, and many more (2012). Facial expression is probably the most used nonverbal demonstrative communication in the world. The face can communicate anger, disgust, fear, happiness, and sadness is used daily express emotion. As previously mentioned demonstrative communications involves sending or receiving wordless messages, we used it most often to reinforce verbal communication. Facial expressions are common forms of nonverbal communication and sometimes can speak louder than verbal words. I remember when I was a small child and even as young adult, if my siblings or I got out of place or even if we look like we were about to be out of place, say something off the wall or out the way, they would look at you in a way that you knew exactly what to do next. Right away you understood just what you needed to do or stop doing that moment without either of you saying a spoken word. I have to chuckle to myself sometimes because I have four children and I have used this form of eye contact many times on all of them at some point or another. Facial expressions are very effective in communications in such a way that if you are in a conversation and the person, let’s say, long winded but you want to let them know you agree with what they are speaking about. So you may nod your head to give them some indications you are listening. Suppose you are surprised or not sure about something that they said you may raise your eye brows. With that sometimes Facial expression can be ineffective or confusing to the receiver. Suppose you raise your eye brows because you had no clue what this person was saying but the person (the sender) speaking just thought your where surprise and...
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