My Ideal Partner Life
An ideal husband would be a person who is an ideal companion.Does it appear that I am running around in circles?I hope it does not.Through the traditional role of a husband is different from that of a wife,the qualities of a person are not sex-oriented,they are person-oriented.What do I want in the person I marry?My list may be a long one but it is sound in its priorities.I want the man I choose as a husband to be generous,to have a sense of humor and to be trusting and trustworthly.I would like to build our relationship on affection and respect and on complete frankness.A tall order?Let me explain myself. Affection and respect put together are the essence of love.They are more durable than the euphoria of romantic love linked to physical attraction.It is true that beauty contributes a great deal towards life’s pleasantness,but unreflecting,unthinking beauty has nothing to recommend itself.Respect in relationship is very importand,and note I mean respect ,note awe or fear or any other feeling but respect which includes self-respect and can be stretched a long way to cover the crevices or feelings. I would like my future husband to be frank with me and to discuss financial,emotional and other problems with me.for if there is any ground on which I cannot thread, or any occasion when I find the door closed against me,or any time when whispered conversation take place,or papers and letters are kept away,or I look askance and don’t get a reply, then there a lies the beginning distrust and rift.A marriage is a companionship,it extends into old age and can mature into a relationship where words need not be exchanged and still complete understanding my exist.It is a relationship which cannot be built on lies or half-truths.When I use the word ‘frank’ I do not only mean emotional friendship through they too are included.Is it not more grateful that my friends of the days when I was not yet married be known to my husband than that I spring a surprise on him or leave