The first type; Agape or true love is experienced between the narrator and his wife Razia. This is shown because they both selflessly love each other. They worked hard to ensure that their love would continue by Razia fighting with her father for the right to marry the narrator. There is also no thought of ever splitting up, which shows that the love is unconditional. This type of love is only experienced by the lucky.…
Compare the views of relationships in ‘The Unequal Fetters’ with those in ‘To his Coy Mistress’. What is suggested about the different ways in which men and women view love?…
The Four Loves, authored by British novelist C.S. Lewis, is often viewed as one of the best books written on the subject of love as it pertains to religion. In the book, Lewis covers many ideas including the four types of love which include: storgé (empathetic love/affection), philia love (the love between friends), Eros (erotic/romantic love), and Agapé (the unconditional ‘God’ love). In this book, Lewis also covers the differences between need and gift love; however, one of the most astounding statements that Lewis makes is in the storgé passage, specifically in the section about affection where he states, “Affection is responsible for nine-tenths of whatever solid and durable happiness there is in our natural lives.” (pg. 53). Lewis also states, "The highest does not stand without the lowest. (pg.9) If affection is part of storgé, which is considered the lowest love, then to obtain the higher loves one must have affection. Furthermore, storgé (commonly referred to as affection) creates stamina in natural relations between people due precisely to that low-level nature it…
McEwan uses a different perspective to the rest of the novel, he uses a form of 3rd person narrative but solely Clarissa as his chosen subject, he also tells the reader this at the start, “ It would make more sense of Clarissa’s return to tell it from her point of view.” McEwan uses this to singularly show movements of Clarissa, because up until then Joe’s perspective has been the main focus, and not any other characters. This way McEwan is able to show the personal feelings of the character and not just from Joe’s point of view, for example we see how she perceives Joe “before she has even put down her bag, he is on another tack, telling her about a conversation he’s jus had with an old friend...” Being told from this perspective we are able to see how Clarissa feels about Joe and not just Joe’s opinions on his own actions.…
Why must a person have a reason to love you. Charles Howards has had many hard times in his life but, he never forgot the ones that loved him with out a request. Charles went to University of Pennsylvania’s and now is a chaplain there. As Charles began his journey at college with a few words of wisdom “Love without Requirement” from Harold Haskins a campus administrator.…
Chapter 17 describes the final breakdown of Joe and Clarissa’s relationship and marks the point in the narrative in which Joe’s isolation from those around him seems complete. McEwan contradicts ensuing events by first placing Joe and Clarissa into an intimate late-night setting, implying that there will be a reconciliation between the two; ‘we were lying face to face in bed, as if nothing was wrong’. The language used here by Joe is also misleading-creating rich imagery and an atmosphere of emotion normally seen from Clarissa, ‘lying in the green field of her stare’-lexis reminiscent of the picnic before the ballooning accident and evoking a pre-lapserian image of the connection the two shared before the arrival of Jed as a Biblical, snake-like intruder to their bliss. This linguistic shift hints at a reunion, although it is also dismantled by Joe’s rationalism ‘synaesthesia... due to disorientation’, as their relationship has been.…
The collection of texts presented in this essay depicts an underlying theme of love. The texts have been examined and explored in order to note the similarities or differences in various categories. To compare two texts by the length of their stanza would be to diminish the value of its words; indeed a comparison of texts must come from the connotation.…
Central Idea: Much of our problem in the modern world is a problem of love in all its aspects - Eros, Libido, Agape, Philia.…
In his book The Four Loves, C.S. Lewis, a Christian, defines four types of love: agapé, the love from God, storgé, the love from familiarity and family, eros, romantic love, and philia, the love of friendship. There is no definite answer to the question of which of Lewis’s four loves is the strongest; it varies with time, place, and culture. But by looking at the type of love a…
There are no prerequisites for love and belonging, we are deserving of love and belonging simply by reason of existence. This is one of the abounding stunning ideas found in Brené Brown’s work. However, this was such a foreign idea to my way of being and of relating to the world that I had no salutation node towards it nor an A-ha moment. Only after repeated readings and listening did the clouds disperse. Theoretically I recognized its truth, but at some level I felt this truth did not refer to me.…
What is Love? Does anyone really know the meaning of the word? Does it have a different meaning to different people? In Kipnis’s essay “Love Labors”, Laura Kipnis touches on many different aspects of love. This is a touchy subject simply because love brings out many different opinions and beliefs. Kipnis argues over the fact that in order to have a good relationship and love someone people have to be able to meet certain requirements, which are mutuality, communication, and advanced intimacy.…
A couple of days ago, I was watching a movie where an English teacher asks her students to discuss ‘what is love’. Majority of the class did not know how to respond. At first, I found this odd considering that love is a universally understood emotion that can be felt by most human beings. We express the emotion on a daily basis, whether it be towards our family, friends, or significant others. However, upon some introspection, I realized that it is difficult to come up with a solid definition for it because of its subjective nature. Love exists in many different forms and holds different meanings for different people.…
In the Greek language, there are four different words for showing affection to an individual. Agápē is the most commonly used Greek word, which literally translates to ‘brotherly love,’ ‘love of god for a man of god,’ or ‘to will the good of another.’ The other three are érōs, philía, storgē, all have different meanings that people today, use with just one word. Eros is ‘love, mostly of the sexual passion,’ philia, ‘affectionate regard of friendship, mostly among equals,’ and storge, ‘love, affection;’ these are all correct definitions and ways to express love, and all of them are very different, some, not romantic at all, while others strictly relating to…
The use of critical thinking is imperative when trying to persuade others. One must effectively use the three types of appeals in order to be successful. I have noticed how Danielle Crittenden and Judy Brady have used the three appeals in their essays “About Love” and “I Want a Wife.” Crittenden and Brady’s use of tone greatly effects how the audience perceives their writing.…
In Erich Fromm's novel, The Art of Loving, the author tackles the task of defining what exactly is meant by the word love and what it means to love someone. He begins by presenting his theories on love and how they apply to the different areas and aspects of life. He then explains how these theories should be applied. The author's account is very convincing and gives readers a clear understanding of what exactly love is and how they should use his explanation in developing their own love lives.…