Compare the Views of Relationships in ‘the Unequal Fetters’ with Those in ‘to His Coy Mistress’. What Is Suggested About the Different Ways in Which Men and Women View Love?

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Compare the views of relationships in ‘The Unequal Fetters’ with those in ‘To his Coy Mistress’. What is suggested about the different ways in which men and women view love?

‘To His Coy Mistress’ was written by Andrew Marvell (1621-1678). The poem is a metaphysical poem, which was mostly used in the seventeenth century and was classed as a highly intellectual type of poetry and mainly expressed the complexities of love and life; just as this poem is. In brief the poem is about seizing every opportunity in life and not caring about the past or future. In other words ‘seize the day’. The poem also explores the nature of seduction.

‘The Unequal Fetters ’written by Anne Finch (1661-1720) is about how women are locked down in relationships.

Both poems share the same theme of love but they do not share the same view about love in general. The poems differentiate in many ways; they both have very different meanings. 'The Unequal Fetters' was written from the point of view of a woman whereas 'To His Coy Mistress' was by the point of view of a man. This is good because we get different opinions via the two different genders on how they perceived love and how they enforced love in to their life. Although they share the same theme they were written in different times periods which may influence the opinion of love authored by each poet.'The Unequal Fetters' was written in the late seventeenth century early eighteenth, and 'To His Coy Mistress' was written in the mid seventeenth century. 'The Unequal Fetters' concentrates on the tie of women in marriage, and 'To His Coy Mistress' relates to seductive love.

In the 17th century men were seen more independent than women. They were seen as more educated, they had more choices, I were not seen as a second class citizen if they slept around with lots of women and also they were aloud to have affairs with other people after marriage, but if women did so they were seen as scum and were treated like second class citizens.

The titles of the poem are both significant because in ‘The Unequal Fetters’, Fetters means chains and chains tie people together, so its saying that people get tied together in relationships. Then there’s ‘unequal’ which means that men and women are not treated the same and ‘the’ could be classed as universal so all marriages are the same, it is also a determiner. From the title you can then tell what that the poem is going b about being tied down and women in general be treated differently then men. Then you have ‘To His Coy Mistress’ and ‘his’ which is a possessive pro-noun and is also in 3rd person. Also saying his makes it impersonal which then makes the women just sound like an object to him and that he is just after her for sex and nothing else. The woman is also not named which could be because it is about men and women in general.

Although Andrew Marvell writes "To His Coy Mistress" in first-person point of view, he presents the poem as the plea of another man. The poet enters the mind of the man and reports his thoughts as they manifest themselves. The young man is impatient and unwilling to tolerate temporizing on the part of the woman. His motivation appears to be hormonal desire rather than true love; passion rules him. Consequently, some may describe him as immature and selfish. 

To his coy mistress is separated in to three sections and it is known as syllogism which is a three part argument. The first section is from line 1 to line 20 and is called a thesis which the main idea. During this the man is trying tell the women if that if they all the time in the world, he could admire the women for ever and she could refuse him as many times as she wants because it wouldn’t matter, they could do what ever they wanted to do, it wouldn’t matter. ‘We’ is used which is an inclusive first person pronoun and Andrew Marvell is trying to say that the man and women are in it together. Also he mentions ‘Indian Ganges’ and by...
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