There are few relationships in my life that could compare to the complexity of the relationship that I share with my father. I grew up hearing stories of his childhood when he grew up in a military family with eleven brothers and sisters, moving from state to state in the deep humid south. I grew up idolizing him because of the crazy wacky adventures that he and his older brother (his best friend) would always be involved in. I always pictured myself in his brother’s shoes living the memories along with my father. He lived in a time where kids could run out of the house in the morning and not have to return until the moon rises, a time of peace and simplicity. In retrospect I think my dad and his brother must have the worst neighbors as they terrorized the banks of the bayous getting wrapped up into all sorts of mischief. In his stories he was presented with several choices, some good, some bad, he didn’t always make the best decisions but he always learned from them and engraved in me the importance of learning from my mistakes, a character trait that was deeply seeded into me since the day I could comprehend English. The reason that my fathers’ life lessons have stuck with me so well is because he doesn’t preach to me about good and bad, he lets me live my life and is always there to help me when I screw up allowing me to live and learn. The lessons that are most important in life are the ones you learn from your mistakes, something that my dad taught me and I’d never forget.…
In today’s world, children need a father figure of some type. Whether this father figure is a brother, uncle, grandfather or friend, the impact of a father has a lasting impression on children. The impression a father lives on a child will have an effect on them for the remainder of their live. In Jimmy Carter’s poem, “I Wanted to Share My Father’s World”, he reveals how every moment with a father, regardless of the situation, should be cherished.…
When staff arrived on shift residents K.W. and T.W were observed horsepalying in the kitchen area. Residents KW and TW were both prompted with verbal prompts to check down to their bedrooms due to fact it was pass their bedtime however, they refused exhibiting playful behaviors i.g. running up and down the stairs and banging on the other residents door. JS (Staff) redirected the residents on several occasions to be respectable towards the other residents and to follow the program rules. Both residents went upstairs stating that they were done playing and were going to go to their assigned rooms. At approximately 11:30pm after staff conducted his last fifteen-minute check noticed the sound of residents running and a loud noise. JS went upstairs…
In her book Longing for Daddy: Healing from the Pain of an Absent or Emotionally Distant Father, Monique Robinson, a pastor of women’s discipleship, explains that daughters long for something they cannot articulate— the need for a father, for his love “defines [her] femininity, shapes her character, affirms her identity, and validates her womanhood” (Robinson 120). Naturally, it is a father’s paternal obligation to nurture and care for his daughter’s emotional needs. Thus, when he neglects his paternal duty, his daughter’s emotional capacity becomes weighted down by negative thoughts that tell her she is unlovable. Therefore, she sets out in pursuit of love (Robinson 120). Consequently, without the support the daughter needs to positively influence…
In the summer of 2016, I decided to enter the Luzerne County Fair guide cover contest, but there was a problem, I had missed the deadline and would have to wait till next year. When the fair came around in September, the winning cover was better than what I could do. I was upset because I thought maybe I would never be good enough to win anything, especially not something…
If you have ever seen one of rodeo 's timed events, been along for work on a ranch or watched a Western on the big screen or television, chances are you have witnessed one of the most popular breeds of horses used in the US, American Quarter Horse in action.…
Farmington, New Mexico 2003, 11 years old and in love with my broken down racehorse, his name was Gentleman or “Gentleman Hawk” according to his papers. We had gotten Gentleman from a sale barn for a measly 400 dollars, he was in real bad shape but my father and I nursed him back to health. When Gentleman was at full health I would run him across the pasture, back and forth until it was dark or my parents called me for supper, it was a time in my life with few worries and very little stress but this horse just brought me so much joy, it was a relationship that I look back on and cherish. Horses had always been such a big part of my families’ life and since I was the only child in the family who would go ride on his own, I really…
Two years after my mom died, my dad officially introduced his girlfriend- no, they are not dating anymore, to my brother, sister, and me. My dad’s ex-girlfriend, Jessica, had a son and a daughter. Her son, Robby, loves guinea pigs. Robby bought a guinea pig. As to this, after one year of dating, Jessica started to live with my family. Since Robby loves guinea pigs, he bought one. Robby was excited to have a guinea pig, while on the contrary, I was annoyed.…
When we drive around town and get a milkshake, it means so much more now that I know our time together isn’t limitless. More than anything, I’m finally beginning to see everything my dad does for me—even after chemo, he still cracks a joke. Even when he’s tired and fatigued, he asks how my day was. At the end of the day, it’s a parent’s duty to teach their children important life lessons, and my dad has unintentionally taught me the most important lesson of all. Just by watching him these past couple months, I’ve learned how to handle adversity with grace and to always look on the bright…
I was born in Scottsdale, Arizona on March 15th, 1999. I lived in Arizona until I was five years old. My brother Ben is two years older than me which is the perfect age difference to create competition between us. When Ben found something new to do, I had to do it too. It didn’t matter that I just turned three years old, I had to ride my bike without training wheels because Ben just did. Now I can’t remember exactly what I thought watching him do this, but I can assume I wanted to be like him. So when my dad was done helping Ben, I asked to have my training wheels taken off so that I could give it a try. Reluctantly, my dad did and when we got to the top of the hill he gave me a push to start and I ended up losing control and crashing into a cactus. Even with that initial bad experience of riding without training wheels, I still wanted to be like my brother. This admiration quickly had me riding a loop around my house daily so as to improve my skills.…
It all started for me when I was five, my dad told me when I could ride my bike without training wheels he would get me a dirt bike. Soon enough I was waking up on Christmas morning to a motocross bike. After that it was like throwing a match into a bucket of gasoline. All I thought about was riding my dirt bike. It soon became much more than a sport to me. We would travel up and down the whole entire east coast to race with the fastest kids so I could get faster. We were almost never home on the weekends, we were either at a race or at a track putting in practice to hopefully one day fulfill the dream of becoming a professional. Although that dream is still very far and has slowly drawn to back of my mind I still want to be a professional more than anything else.…
I was inspired to put it together after I read Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters: 10 Secrets Every Father Should Know by Meg Meeker, M.D. Dr. Meeker is a pediatrician. She has seen what a father’s influence means in the lives of girls from the counseling she’s done in her practice. If you are a daddy of girls, then you need to read this book. It should be mandatory for all fathers with daughters.…
I have been a Junior Olympic Competitive Gymnast for fourteen years and it has shaped me to be the person that I am today. Gymnastics is a large part of my life that has taught me time management, perseverance, and how to believe in myself even when the odds are stacked against me. When I was thirteen years old I qualified to the Level Eight South Eastern Regional Championships of the United States. Level eight in gymnastics is one of the most difficult levels and the one where college coaches start to recruit the best competitors. Without knowing it at the time, this would be an important event in shaping who I am today.…
On the 6th of June in 2015, American Pharaoh galloped down the home stretch at Belmont Stake Park and finished the race 5 ½ lengths ahead of the other horses (Almasy). Thus, history was made, and for the first time in 37 years, a horse had won the Triple Crown. The Triple Crown is bestowed to three-year-old Thoroughbreds who have won the Kentucky Derby, the Preakness, Stakes, and the Belmont Stakes. Obtaining the Triple Crown is considered a racehorse’s greatest accomplishment, and it requires an incredible amount of both endurance and athleticism. People from all over America banded together to celebrate such an incredible feat and this horse who overcame so many physical odds. It is exciting moments like these that cause individuals to idealize…
I have been a daddy’s girl ever since I was a little girl. We did everything together, from playing Counter Strike: Source, dueling each other in Yu-Gi-Oh, and even watching scary movies together. We have been glued to the hip for as long as I could remember. My mom on the other hand, we did not have as much in common. The only thing we both liked was the Harry Potter series as well as the Lord of the Ring series. Little did we know, dressing up as fictional characters would bring us closer together.…