Femininity In Monique Robinson's Longing For Daddy

In her book Longing for Daddy: Healing from the Pain of an Absent or Emotionally Distant Father, Monique Robinson, a pastor of women’s discipleship, explains that daughters long for something they cannot articulate— the need for a father, for his love “defines [her] femininity, shapes her character, affirms her identity, and validates her womanhood” (Robinson 120). Naturally, it is a father’s paternal obligation to nurture and care for his daughter’s emotional needs. Thus, when he neglects his paternal duty, his daughter’s emotional capacity becomes weighted down by negative thoughts that tell her she is unlovable. Therefore, she sets out in pursuit of love (Robinson 120). Consequently, without the support the daughter needs to positively influence