There were two main strengths in this chapter that caught our attention. The first one was the in-depth interviews that Beres conducted with her participants. The interviews allowed the readers to view the different perspectives each sex and individual had. The interviews broaden the understanding of the participants’ actions.The second strength, we acknowledged, was the discourses that addressed the basic reasoning of why casual sex occurs. Beres provided detailed discourses that expanded the understanding of the readers’ knowledge.…
In Social exchange theory, Miller (2012) describes that our satisfaction levels depend on the differences between current outcomes and our comparison levels ( p.176). Same concepts can be used to examine the variables that influence the occurrence of infidelity. Spiner’s (1983) research identified some salient predictors of extramarital relationships (p.26). Variables such as premarital sexual behaviours, perceptions of marital quality and perceptions of opportunity to engage in extramarital sex could result in different levels of sexual satisfaction in the primary relationship. In terms of sexual satisfaction, if the current comparison level was lower than the comparison level, the sexual satisfaction is lower than alternatives. This may lead…
Studies on sexuality reveal older adults experience many facets of sexuality as young adults. Many marriages may face difficulties that could include unhappy marriages, extramarital affairs, uninterested spouses, and open marriages (Hiller, S., & Barrow, G.M. 2015). Kay and Arnold are no exception. Kay and Arnold experienced the idea of uninterested spouses. After Arnold’s surgery, their marriage lost interest, and this is how their marital issues began. Through the disinterest and lack of intimacy, it is important to remember none of them did anything to break each other’s trust or to completely disassemble their marriage such as having an affair or merging their marriage to an open marriage, which in this generation, it seems it is very rare for a couple to stay loyal. About 30%-60% of married people will engage in fidelity a some point in their marriage (). Although unsatisfied, they both stayed true to one another. They lacked their dedication to one another in certain areas by sleeping in different rooms, losing focus on companionship and confidants, and enduring the same mundane daily routine. Though these are unfortunate circumstances in a marriage, Kay and Arnold did not look outside the marriage to satisfy their needs. When exchanging vows, they promise to stay loyal. Even though it is expected, it does not make it impossible to not follow these vows. Arnold and Kay never broke their promises of staying loyal to one another, and they did not commit affairs. This shows deep down their marital foundation was strong even amidst difficult times. It shows they care about not hurting each other by staying true to the marriage and not seeking company outside of…
In the Brave New World people openly have sex with news partners every week, every day or multiple times a day. In the Brave New World the more sex you have the higher people view you. Our society had been evolving to something more and more like this society. A few decades ago we where a lot more closed off in sex. It was something that lots of people thought was for marriage. People use to not live together until they are married. In a recent study it showed that now only 3 percent of people in the united states waite to have sex until marriage (waiting til marriage). Another study showed that “70 percent of married women have cheated on their partners; a 1993 follow-up study found that 72 percent of married men have as well according to” (American Physiological association). The numbers from the cheating study have slightly gone up as the years go on. We are like the Brave New World as in sex is becoming more and more casual. For lots of people it is no longer for the life long one person, instead they have sex with a number of people just like in Brave New…
The genetic influences on infidelity are unclear in humans. This study unearths the question of whether infidelity is linked to genetics. The methodology used consist of creditable news sources such as CNN, ABC and MSNBC, Proceedings of the National Academy of Science of the United States, Public Library…
Burchell, J. L., & Ward, J. (2011). Sex drive, attachment style, relationship status and previous infidelity as…
Web. 28 Aug. 2014. "Sex and Spouses: Marriage, Pleasure, and Consumation." Brown.edu. Brown University, 31 Jan. 2011.…
The average number of marriages has declined since the 1950’s for various reasons that scholars have tried to explain through their research (Vanorman & Scommegna, 2016). Even with the legalization of same sex marriage, there has been a decline in the number of married adults in the United States. In 1960, about three-quarters of all American adults were married, compared to 2014 where the number had decreased to about half of all American adults being married (Vanorman & Scommegna, 2016). The United States’s marriage trend has been influenced by factors such as cohabitation, delayed marriage, an increase in divorce with a decrease in remarriage, and the increase of having children out of wedlock (Vanorman & Scommegna, 2016).…
In today’s world, adultery is a common event in households across the United States and in many other countries, too. Despite the media’s watering down of adultery, it is a devastating tragic hit to all who are involved, no matter how angry or detached they seem. It has a lasting negative effect on any children involved, making them lose them lose their faith in their role models, and teaching them that adultery is the easiest solution to an unhappy marriage. Adultery is a negative experience that stems from an impulsive desire which leads everyone involved on a wild tornado of hate, loss, anger, betrayal, and bitterness.…
Sexual infidelity or adultery is defined as voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and a partner other than a lawful spouse (thefreedictionary.com). Overall, 90% Americans disapprove of sexual infidelity in marriage; however, 15-25% of married men and women reported having intercourse with someone outside of their marriage (Treas & Giesen 2000; Wiederman 1997). According to Prins, Buunk, and Van Yperpen people in unhappy relationships report a greater desire and involvement in extramarital sex (Dollahite & Lambert 2007, cited Prins Buunk, & Van Yperpen 1993). The topic of sexual infidelity is important to research and discuss because several studies suggest that extramarital affairs are the number one cause of divorce (Dollahite & Lambert 2007).…
A general accepted assumption and expectation is that people should remain faithful when married, engaged or in any other type of a serious committed relationship. Nonetheless, whether a couple is truly in love or not, temptations and opportunities to cheat arise. There are many issues surrounding this dilemma of cheating (where one cheats on the other or both cheat on each other) that many couples are faced with. However, the focal issue and concentration of this essay is whether or not cheating in a serious relationship is morally acceptable. I am of the opinion that it is morally unacceptable and will support this viewpoint with the following points.…
Americans do just about everything a bit more spectacularly than most other people. That includes marriage and divorce. The United States has the world's highest divorce rate and it also leads in the rate of remarriage after divorce, an occurrence that frequently boosts the statistics by leading to yet another breakup. Americans, in short, appear to be marrying more and enjoying it less. This situation distresses clergymen, sociologists and anthropologists, who rightly regard stable marriage as the foundation of society. But it is only half the tragedy of divorce in America. The real scandal is not that so many Americans resort to divorce. It is that so many of the laws of the land are sadly out of step with the growing…
Dedmon, J. (November 2002). Is the Internet bad for your marriage? Online affairs, pornographic sites playing greater role in divorces. Press Release from The Dilenschneider Group, Inc.…
The life course perspective is a theoretical framework which was formed in order to capture certain historical and life characteristics about the human development from childhood into old age in a particular society. The life course signifies the potential consequences of trajectories, individual transitions, and how turning points in the trajectory can alter an individual’s life course (Alwin et. al 2005). As a result, many social scientists have employed the life course perspective into research on human development and aging. This theoretical framework emphasizes social experiences in historical time and the differential roles of cohorts on human development and aging (Elder et. al 2003)…
Another difference would be the difference in attitudes toward premarital and extramarital sex (Peplau, 2003). In an experiment done with Regan and Berscheid (1999) they asked both men and women to define sexual desire (Peplau, 2003). The women’s responses showed that they linked sexual desire to a more committed relationship and looked at it in a more loving way whereas the males were more into the physical pleasure that intercourse brings (Peplau, 2003). Women’s sexual fantasies are proven to include people that they know and men’s are more likely to include all kinds of people…