Seeing Us Complexly
Dalai Lama assured that “cultivating a close, warm-hearted feeling for others automatically puts the mind at ease. It helps remove fear…gives us strength to cope with any obstacles we encounter.” Dalia gives a quote to understand about the ways people can see someone complexly. Dalai gives the example that coping skills help all the part to interact with each other to fully understand the person. Books that also help understand to see each complexly are A Child Called It by Dave Pelzer, The Fault in Our Starts by John Green and, Holes by Louis Sachar. Seeing each other complexly seems impenetrable because it is hard to see behind the story of the people that are confused by emotions or reactions they cannot explain. More of the complexly involve
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Dr.Cathy says that “Survivors are often out of touch with their feelings – confused by emotions or reactions they cannot explain.” This is what happen with Hazel, Hazel Grace is one of the main character from the fault in our start. Hazel is a shy girl who doesn’t like to open up and has a wall built in her personalities traits to hide her emotions. But it is not very easy to see them complexly. Hazel was diagnose with cancer at the age of thirteen. Overcoming circumstances out of control are freighting, but people need to see beyond the bad. Quote by character Hazel Grace Green 132 “sure,” I said. I felt bad for him. Even though I hated the sympathy people felt toward me…” Augustus water has cancer too but he has a way different outlook on life than Grace does. There is another character in this story who is named Peter Van Hounten (Novelist) who has been judge as the tough guy and emotionless guy. Who has really been over filled with emotions he hasn’t express so it is really easy to be judge of his cover? Chris Curry claims that it “comes down to a mistaken belief that we share that ‘we must be able to handle this on our own and it is a signal of weakness to ask for help.” People put up walls and seem so emotionless it is not easy to really see behind that wall and are often judge by their
Dr.Cathy says that “Survivors are often out of touch with their feelings – confused by emotions or reactions they cannot explain.” This is what happen with Hazel, Hazel Grace is one of the main character from the fault in our start. Hazel is a shy girl who doesn’t like to open up and has a wall built in her personalities traits to hide her emotions. But it is not very easy to see them complexly. Hazel was diagnose with cancer at the age of thirteen. Overcoming circumstances out of control are freighting, but people need to see beyond the bad. Quote by character Hazel Grace Green 132 “sure,” I said. I felt bad for him. Even though I hated the sympathy people felt toward me…” Augustus water has cancer too but he has a way different outlook on life than Grace does. There is another character in this story who is named Peter Van Hounten (Novelist) who has been judge as the tough guy and emotionless guy. Who has really been over filled with emotions he hasn’t express so it is really easy to be judge of his cover? Chris Curry claims that it “comes down to a mistaken belief that we share that ‘we must be able to handle this on our own and it is a signal of weakness to ask for help.” People put up walls and seem so emotionless it is not easy to really see behind that wall and are often judge by their