Online Dating Vs Traditional Dating
The Difference between Online Dating and Traditional Dating Elizabeth Hill Com/170 08-01-2013
Elizabeth Olivares
The Difference between Online Dating and Traditional Dating Every day millions of single people share a common goal. They share the desire in finding a romantic life partner, someone with whom they can share their hopes and dreams, someone with whom they can grow old. Most singles date several people before they find their true loves. However, the way people date today has changed drastically with the use of the Internet. Although many people prefer online dating to the traditional dating approach, both can have safety, deception, and …show more content…
From the collection of various people, they can then narrow their search to people who meet their specific criteria, and later, if the two people are not compatible, the dater can click a button and continue searching for the next candidate. While using the traditional dating method, they would have to waste time going on several dates just to realize they had wasted their time. The only disadvantage of the filter method is the competition the potential dater would encounter. For example, if someone were in a grocery store and decided to approach someone and ask for a phone number, they would have only a few minutes to evaluate that person and decide if they wanted to give their number to them or not, asking themselves if this is someone they would date. However, if they were to meet online, and share e-mails back and forth, then asking for a number would not be as risky because they would more than likely have compared them to the other emails they had recently received and would think to themselves, “Is this a possible Mr. or Mrs. …show more content…
Some forms and levels of misrepresentation are acceptable by daters, while others are perceived as a nuisance. The most common lies are about age, marital or parental status, appearance, income, or profession. Misrepresentation is also very common practice in face-to-face encounters. For instance, during a job interview, or while on a date, people seek acceptance and try to portray themselves as socially accepted models, and with what the people are looking for, based on the feedback that they get from the interaction. Studies show that relational goals are strongly linked to misrepresentation. Those who are looking for serious long-term relationships are less inclined to lie on their profiles. A dating website that charges a certain amount for its services is most likely to gather members with relational goals looking to truly find lifelong
Elizabeth Olivares
The Difference between Online Dating and Traditional Dating Every day millions of single people share a common goal. They share the desire in finding a romantic life partner, someone with whom they can share their hopes and dreams, someone with whom they can grow old. Most singles date several people before they find their true loves. However, the way people date today has changed drastically with the use of the Internet. Although many people prefer online dating to the traditional dating approach, both can have safety, deception, and …show more content…
From the collection of various people, they can then narrow their search to people who meet their specific criteria, and later, if the two people are not compatible, the dater can click a button and continue searching for the next candidate. While using the traditional dating method, they would have to waste time going on several dates just to realize they had wasted their time. The only disadvantage of the filter method is the competition the potential dater would encounter. For example, if someone were in a grocery store and decided to approach someone and ask for a phone number, they would have only a few minutes to evaluate that person and decide if they wanted to give their number to them or not, asking themselves if this is someone they would date. However, if they were to meet online, and share e-mails back and forth, then asking for a number would not be as risky because they would more than likely have compared them to the other emails they had recently received and would think to themselves, “Is this a possible Mr. or Mrs. …show more content…
Some forms and levels of misrepresentation are acceptable by daters, while others are perceived as a nuisance. The most common lies are about age, marital or parental status, appearance, income, or profession. Misrepresentation is also very common practice in face-to-face encounters. For instance, during a job interview, or while on a date, people seek acceptance and try to portray themselves as socially accepted models, and with what the people are looking for, based on the feedback that they get from the interaction. Studies show that relational goals are strongly linked to misrepresentation. Those who are looking for serious long-term relationships are less inclined to lie on their profiles. A dating website that charges a certain amount for its services is most likely to gather members with relational goals looking to truly find lifelong