My Relational Style

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My Relational Style Action Plan
1)The overarching goal/purpose for my personal life is: to love God and to love my neighbors. In Matthew 22:37-39 Jesus said, “‘Love the Lord your God with all your passion and prayer and intelligence.’ This is the most important, the first on any list. But there is a second to set alongside it: ‘Love others as well as you love yourself’ (MSG). If I can learn to love God with every aspect of who I am then God will work in and through me. I will be able to become who God wants me to be and I will be able to love myself in a healthy manner and then be able to love others. As I learn to love others as I love myself there will be healing, relationships will be restored, and most of all counselees will begin or renew their relationship with God. 2)My three highest spiritual gift tendencies are: perceiving/prophecy, encouraging/exhorting, and administering/leading. So I tend to be more bold, initiating, and encouraging. 3)The overuse of these gifts sometimes causes me to talk too much. It happens when I tend to explain things over and over again assuming people can’t understand me. I try to explain it many times till I think they understood it. I tend to expect too much from people not taking into consideration what they are capable of or what their gifts and talents are. I also tend to become a fighter (arguer) when things don’t go my way or I see something I don’t like. I usually fight when I get attacked I won’t let people walk all over me or push me around. 4)My highest personality profile plotting point in Graph 1: “D” Graph 2: “D”. I tend to plan and prepare more than others but I don’t always communicate it well to others. I am decisive with what I want and the task before gets done. 5)The overuse of this type sometimes makes me apt to intimidate and offend at times. I don’t set out to intimidate or offend people. Because I love to tell the truth of God and have no fear in proclaiming the truth, and being...
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