Love Style Inventory, And Are You A Good Listener

What is love? and Is there an actual definition for love? Love is define and expressed in many different ways. It can be consider as an expression, desire, or a statement about what you really like. According to Welch (2010), "Love is a tough subject to tackle..., but it is a necessary discussion as we consider intimate relationships among friends, lovers, and family (p.172)." Love is a difficult subject because not every individual are able to express or personal confront a person about their feelings. There are individual who is trying to find their love. Even during this moment, researchers is finding the concept hard to define because it has been used as a reference to something else. John Alan Lee (1973), Canadian sociologist, stated six different types of love styles, which will be related to the
When I did the "Love Style" inventory, I had a hard time answer the question. There were question that I have never thought that I was that type of person. So to make it easier, I got my roommate to help me answer the survey questions. As a friend and a roommate, she notice and has different perspective than what I have never notice about myself. Out of six, I had score higher in three categories: pragmatic, storge, and ludus. After taking the survey and seeing the results, I do agree with the three categories. Pragmatic, which is defined as "costs and benefits associated with love are carefully weighed and considered before entering into a relationship (Welch, 2010, p. 194)." I scored 9 in because I want to be in a relationship that has everything I need from family, a house,