First, because his dad is only acknowledges his opinion as right, he will not be able to understand Josh’s opinion. Second, it makes Josh feel like his opinions are invalid, as his father is disregarding what he says (Wood, 120).
On the other hand, Josh is listening defensively and is taking his father’s advice as criticism. When his father uses his own experiences to explain the negative impact he believes fraternities have on academics, Josh responds, “But Dad, I’m not you. Joining a fraternity wouldn’t necessarily mean that my grades…” (Wood, 132) With this remark, Josh has ignored his father’s advice and, instead, thinks that his father does not value his judgment. He knows his father disapproves and is imposing that disapproval onto his responses when criticism may not be intended (Wood,