Gay Marriage

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What is marriage? People argue with respect to the definition of marriage. To get married is a very important event for almost everyone. Especially for women, marriage and giving a birth could be the two biggest events of their lives. Many people believe that getting married to the one whom he or she loves is natural. However, what do you think if you cannot get married to him or her because it is socially unacceptable? It is unfail to homosexuals in our society, aren't we all suppose to be seen as equal. This is not true for the homosexuals in our society, without the right to marry they do not receive the benefits they would if they were able to. Some agree with the same-sex marriage because everyone has a right to marry, on the other hand, others believe that marriage is between only a man and a woman building up their entire life together.

Gay marriage has slowly became a significant factor amongst our lives today. Arguments against gay marrige I feel is because most people have fear that gay marriage may rise and destroy the whole concept of marriage and mock the importance of procreation. Everyone in society should have the right to marry regardless of gender, and should be socially acceptable., “people say that banning same sex marriage is not only unfair, but it is also discriminatory” (2010, p.31). Typically in society, denying individuals rights in regard to their gender, race or sexual orientation is in the category as discrimination. Going against gay marriage and not allowing either two females or to males getting married to one another can become a form of illegal discrimination towards society. It is simply giving equal rights to homosexuals and not judging or blocking them out of the marriage institution. Homosexuals who are not married are just as committed in their relationship as heterosexual married couples are. Individuals may think that preventing homosexual couples from getting married deteriorates the institution of marriage. However, as society begins to accept homosexuality and homosexuals become openly about their relationships to one another, they become more valued members within their communities and the distinction between living together or being married seems to disenegrate. As for homosexual couples who want to build and raise a family, adoption is the most popular action to partake in and socially this should be accepted within the rights of society. As part of the ‘against’ position, a discussion will be made in relation to children needed both a mother and a father figure. Some feel that children being raise by parents of the same sex will raise their children to believe that same sex marriage is the proper way, and influence their ideas on marriage. However, in the context of gay parenting, it is not always that a child needs both a mother and a father figure. In society, either two mothers or two fathers can raise children. As long as they are responsible and love their children, children can be raised just the same as heterosexual couples that have children. It can become noticeable that there are many issues constantly affecting gay and lesbian parenting. Various assumptions can be put into context that children are affected physically, socially and psychologically, but homosexual couples who want to experience in raising a family should be allowed that same right as heterosexual couples. There ultimately is no grounded evidence that mentions that children are affected with same sex parents.

In Mezey’s book about gay families, Mallon states that “it is estimated that there are as many as ten million children living in families with gay, lesbian or bisexual single parents or couples” (Mezey, 2009, p.11). Alternatively, it becomes that more so as studies show, it is not un-normal for children to be involved with same sex parents. Love within same sex couples, according to Ritchie and Baker, they suggest that “people are expected to have...
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