Stage 4 is the member of society perspective. The book states that “social order is most important now. Behaviors that contribute to functioning of social systems are most valued, e.g., obeying laws,hard work.” p.261. During the developmental panel, a question that could be classified as a Kohlberg Moral Development question was asked. The question …show more content…
The question asked was, at what age do you think it is appropriate to move out of your parents place and why? Emilee replied by saying that it is appropriate to leave home when you are ready. Emilee went on to say that she did not leave home until she was about twenty, but also stated that she could have done it sooner if she wanted to. It is interesting that Erikson believes that before the age of twenty, adolescents have an inability to establish a sense of self. perhaps that is the reason that Emilee stayed home until the age of twenty which is when Erikson believes that individuals are able to establish a sense of self and is able to share themselves with others. Emilee was asked another question relevant to Erikson's developmental stages. The question asked what is one important value you hold and where do you think it came from? Emilee responded by stating to never leave the house angry, but to instead leave the house saying i love you, which is something she learned from her mother. With this response Emilee is showing the virtue of love that Erikson developed. She also is showing that she wants to keep those important to her close avoiding distancing. This supports Erikson's theory that distance and love play a factor in the development during young