Heather M. Chapman’s article, “Love: A Biological, Psychological, and Philosophical Study” (2011), asserts that the idea of love can be defined in a biological, psychological, and philosophical way. Chapman supports this claim by specifically going into detail with each concept, stating how it effects humans and how they choose…
In the book why we love, author Helen Fisher attempts to understand the idea behind the human romantic love by studying the mating behavior of animals. Thus, she firmly believes that romantic love is a phenomenon arising from ‘human nature’. Which shows itself in the different forms in the animal kingdom. The book begins by presenting the results of a scientific study in which Fisher scanned the brains of people who had just fallen madly in love. She proves, at last, what researchers had only suspected: that when you fall in love, primordial areas of the brain "light up" with increased blood flow, creating romantic passion. Fisher uses this new research to show exactly what you experience when you fall in love, why you choose one person rather than another, and how romantic love affects your sex drive and your feelings of attachment to a partner. She argues that all animals feel romantic attraction, that love at first sight comes out of nature, and that human romance evolved for crucial reasons of survival. Lastly, she offers concrete suggestions on how to control this ancient passion, and she optimistically explores the future of romantic love in our chaotic modern world.…
Society expects people to fall in love. That is, society expects people to find a life partner, get married, and have children. Those who do not follow the pattern are generally seen as hermits who sit in their houses with multiple forms of pets to keep them company. This burden life throws at human beings growing up, turns into a moral value. People want to find someone that makes them so happy that their heart hurts when they’re not with them. This would be the case if one does actually fall in love. Love can be a wonderful thing. However, sometimes it can be a devastatingly evil form of torture. Even though it is expected to make one feel content and comforted, love can make anyone feel more alone than ever before. Love is presumed to be a step in life. The expectation society applies to it leads to alienation of characters in the summer reading of The Great Gatsby, Their Eyes Were Watching God, and The Grapes of Wrath.…
Money can buy first impressions, but it cannot buy true love. True love comes from having mutual respect for one another, caring for someone other than yourself, sharing great experiences, and building a strong relationship together. It is proven that relationships that are based off of money rarely ever end up happy. The opposing side may argue that if someone buys their significant other more expensive items such a diamond ring that this will satisfy him/her and all your troubles will be gone, but if that's all it takes to have a successful relationship then you are in a unhealthy relationship. Therapist Aaron Ben-Zeev Ph.D. says, “Money can't buy love and love can't buy money, but money increases the chances of love and love decreases the need for money. When one is in love, money is of less significance, and when one lacks money for basic needs, love is often more at risk.” (Ben-Zeev) You should enjoy love regardless of whether you have a lot of money. Like when the song writer and artists The Beatles once said in their hit song Can't Buy me Love “Say you don't need no diamond ring and I'll be satisfied. Tell me that you want the kind of thing that money just can't buy. I don't care too much for money, money can't buy me love.”…
From the question of what is love, people may hear many different answers from philosophers, psychologists, novelist, poet, or other people. Even though people have experienced falling in love with someone, they have different definition on the question of what is love? A philosopher, Julian Baggini, said, “Love is a passionate commitment.” He said love is not only one quality, but there are love for friends, wife and husband, God, money, nation, children and so on. So love has many qualities, which could define love. But all those love could lead people not only the best, but also worst. So when those love lead people to the bad, people must go over those worst situations. So the love is more than feelings, but commitment. When people commit to overcome any problems that they meet, they will nurture. And if there is no nurturing, even the best will be dead. The romantic novelist Jojo Moyes said, “Love dries all great stories.” She believes that before achieving something, there must be a relationship between friends, family, God, one-self, or etc. And that relationship could be defined as love. So when they make love or relationship in order to achieve marriage, business, and anything that people want to achieve. The nun Catherine Wybourne said, “Love is free yet binds us.” This means people love God, so people must do what God wants them to do. Love is so free when that love is in God. God wants people to acts of mercy, kindness, sacrifice, and self-devote. So when people live their lives for others, it could bonds people together. The Physicist, Jim Al-Khalili said, “Love is Chemistry.” This is because when both people involve in a sexual relationship, it increase and release testosterone and oestrogen…
As human being there is the thought that love is difficult to understand. Why are some people attracted to the people that they are attracted to and what is it that draws them to each other? Understanding the dimensions of love and knowing attachment styles clear up some of the confusion. There are three dimensions of love: intimacy, passion, and commitment. These are known as the triangular theory of love (Sternberg, 1986, 1987).…
A group of people are strong, united they can accomplish great things. If one member of a powerful group were to be excommunicated they will naturally seek belonging in another group or they will become lonely and depressed. This is because human beings have a natural inclination for relationships. Henceforth we will take a look at the power of love and discuss the impact of relationships and social interaction and how they affect our lives.…
Ponder on that question. Does this transcend to the interrogative “what makes us human”? Love, as defined philosophically, appears in seven kinds of implicit bonds. One is to satisfy basic appetite. Human, on the other hand, is a being capable of reasoning, introspection, and philosophy. But the sentence itself also defines the soul. So what really is a human? Human differentiates the soul through physicality. Physicality limits us in so many ways in which soul doesn’t necessitate. Love, as defined personally and limitedly, is a feeling of exclusivity and being understood needless of our limited capabilities of truly understanding.…
A common emotion is love or falling in love, almost everyone wishes they would fall in love. Everyone who has fell in love has understood that love is a magical feeling and will do anything for that person. In the book “Mythology” Edith Hamilton explains that love can not live where there is no soul. She also explains how people will die for eachother if they are in love. Many who have not fell in love have misconceptions of why people who are in love will do anything for their relationship. Those who do not know love misunderstand the meaning of why a strong relationship begins with truth and love.…
Because of this, we are left asking ‘what?’. What is so addicting about love? Do we love imperfection, love to feel wanted, love the vision of love that ends with a happily ever after? It is often portrayed that you…
level of needs. Money can 't buy love, but it can buy some security such as…
I believe that love is more than just a word, I believe that love is what makes the world go round and is the driving force behind everything, I believe that love is the thing that can make any human happy, but at the same time can be the source of their insanity. One thing i've been trying to figure out is what drives a person to be sad or happy? I've always thought happiness is what you make it out to be, and is different for every single person, but one thing i'm almost positive about, is that we all find happiness in love. Ever since I was a kid, i've always thought that getting married to the person of your dreams was the ultimate life goal, and to me, still is the ultimate life goal. Recently i've met a girl, she's the most amazing woman i've ever met, and ever will meet. She is…
As a race we all strive for some aspect of love. In childhood we strive for the best love and acceptance of our parents that one would never forget. As we reach the adolescents stage without knowing we strive for the love of our peers and as an adult we yearn for the love of that special someone who can make you feel safe and secured. It is an important part of our well being. Scientists of today have linked the lack of affection derived from love to being the source to a lot of illnesses. Without the affection of love one can begin to suffer from problems such as depression, starvation, weakness, fear of being alone, and sometimes even death can occur. From the mental to the physical it has been proven that love can also cure many of the mentioned illnesses.…
Love is inconceivably the most confusing concept ever. Some love, simple, or not love at all, is easily achieved, while true-love is very hard to obtain. It is most certainly, at its best, described in Jane Austin’s “Pride and Prejudice”. One can most likely name a few ways love comes about, that is, “true-love” or the want to truly be with one, financial stability, and social acceptance. It is most desirable to seek “true-love”, but is seldom ever found, and when it is, the path in which comes before it will not be a smooth one. If one desires a smooth path, riches, and rise in social rank, one only needs to look no further than a rich man in need of a wife.…
Love is like a rumor; everyone talks about it yet few truly know the truth. If there is an emotional state that we as humans idealize it is love. However, we want nothing of its dark side and demand that it always hides its flaws. Nonetheless many of us are unprepared for the battles that the heart must be willing to endure in order to take on the emotion of love. Many people fantasize about what it will be like to fall in love and dream about their perfect match. Individuals spend their whole lives so fixated on the love that they might one-day experience that they often forget about the love they are surrounded by every day. The significance level placed on love is extremely high and many people believe that they could not live without it, yet it is also one of the most difficult and complex emotions to sustain.…