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Although the essay "My Father's Son" and the poem "my father's son" written by the same author, Mel Donalson and have similar titles, they have different ways to express the son's feeling of his father's character, merit and devotion to his family. Both essay and poem's main ideas center around affection and father's commitment to his family. However, the poem only describes the cold weather and the father's image in his regular life style without expression of the author's deep feeling. It is understandable that the poem mainly expresses the author's naïve character during his childhood. On the other hand, the essay is more detail in describing the author's different feelings from his journey from boyhood to manhood. Unlike the poem, Donalson focuses on his life's experience and development with his changeable attitude to father: from ungratefulness and contempt to thankfulness and respect. Although both the poem and essay are different in form and narrator, they share the same elements and visual images to support the author's message of respect between a father and son. The author, Donalson, uses visual images in both the poem and essay to describe the respectable father whom the author had. He uses the word "gladiator" to describe his father. "Gladiator" literally means man trained to fight with weapons at public shows in an arena; however, it symbolizes his father's courage and tolerance of hard-working environment. In the poem, the poet portrays his father as "dark and beautiful" and uses the phrases "broadness of his back," and "a large dry hand" to describe his father. "Dark and beautiful" tells the reader that the author knows his father's humble origin in the South but he still appreciates his father's appearance. "Broadness of his back" shows his father is a strong and powerful man. All those merits of his father give reason that his father is a respectable man. In the essay, similar descriptions used to describe his father like

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