She gave up everything so Buffy could get an education and provided her with whatever she needed. On the opposite end, Tony’s father worked a lot at the factory and blames Tony’s worsening behavior on the death of his mother. Tony’s father tries to help him understand that even though you might not get along with another person, sometimes you have to concede and do things their way. You cannot simply explain how to be a better person to a child through a story; it must be learned through their life. Parents have to show that they care about their child for their child to appreciate what they have.
While parents can be essential to teaching children how to act, their teachers and mentors play a pivotal role. Buffy is mentored by her “Watcher” Giles. He helps point Buffy in the right direction in the way of Vampire slaying but does little to help in her actual schooling. Tony has Detective Donovan who tries to steer him down the straight and narrow, but cannot do much because he is a police officer and usually shows up after the fighting has already started. It is easier to mentor the child as a teacher considering they spend most of their time at