"The Triumph of the Yell" by Deborah Tannen gives an essential, yet instructive contention on the way of open talk today. She assesses why individuals feel the need to battle unreasonably with a specific end goal to win contentions, and why they are doing it to an ever increasing extent. Her motivation is to advise individuals that restriction is not the way to truth, despite the fact that it appears like the most effortless. Tannen contends that individuals need to comprehend the resistance's contentions, and not simply hope to holler and scorn the restriction. It is expressed this could frequently prompt lying and an aggregate misfortune in the honesty of the talk.…
“On one level, whispering, like gossip, is a feminine tactic; the whispering offers information syly, secretly, deviously, because she has not the social authority to speak it aloud. She is not wholly without power, but remains dependent upon another to bring her private knowledge into public.” (Friedman…
As I read eating the Dinosaur written by Chuck Klosterman (precisely chapters 1 and 2), it just dawns on me that I have never really considered the reasons why people talk. More importantly, the book reveals the covert motives behind my communication with people. Suddenly I just realized that there is more to humans’ conversations beyond the fact that they have well developed brains and have the capacity to express intelligible words. Part of the discovery I made was that the intentions of my mind when I communicate with people vary based on my mood at the time of the conversation, the environment, the kind of people I am conversing with, and my cognitive bias and preconceived notion. In this light, I agree with the concept of “Privileged access” credited to Enroll Morris by Klosterman. Enroll Morris believes that we do not have privileged access to our minds: we truly do not know who we are and that is why we engage in a seemingly endless battle of self-discovery (Klosterman, pg. 5). I absolutely agree with Morris because I found his assertion about the battle of self-discovery to be true in my personal experience.…
Based on lecture, identifying the source/locus of the silence(s) you see is essential for the potential validity of identifying the effects of silence…
Like Postman’s example of “smoke signals” used in class, such simple forms of communication cannot give the reader/viewer the big picture. Smoke signals can’t be used to explain a philosophy or the thought process behind something. The stories we hear have less and less meaning as we become swamped with the numerous options available on modern media formats. Who has time to focus on a large occurrence when you can hear about 20 more just like it with the tap of a screen or click of the remote? People used to go lifetimes only hearing occasional…
Silent people appear to be hiding characteristics about themselves through their quietness. When a person, specifically a woman, is silent, it is perplexing. Her silence is strange and worrisome to the people who care for her. To a reader, one may compare a female character’s silence to a loud noise. It calls for questions to be raised. No one questions why someone is loud; it is only when one becomes silent that people are concerned. In the translated Romance “Silence” by Sarah Roche-Mahdi and the novel “Their Eyes were watching God” by Zora Neale Hurston, the struggle that the main characters deal with is shown throughout their silence. It distances the characters, Silentius and Janie, from the real world by having to hide who they are as…
We live our lives by what we think we should do” (Ballinger 9). Is lying the best route to take while trying come to a solution? Or, is honesty the best way to go? In the article, “Brad Blanton: Honestly, Tell the Truth” Barbara Ballinger the author, interviews Brad Blanton who argues that telling the truth and being honest is better than lying. In the text, Brad Blanton believes that “being honest all the time is what’s radical - and rare.” However, he wants to convince others that honesty is better than lying. For example, he says that, “You have to think about what the person’s reaction might be, and you start manipulating information to control the outcome” (Ballinger 7). This proves that lying isn’t always the greatest path to take when trying to get out of a uncomfortable situation.…
Just as judges instruct juries to disregard some statements made in court, we can reverse or erase the effects of communication interactions in everyday life.…
Even though dissemination means the act of spreading something and making it known, it does not guarantee that people understand each other. While dialogue encourages people to engage in face-to-face dialogue to agree on certain ideas, dissemination leaves the audience guessing while interpreting something because there is a lack of interaction. An common example of dissemination is television as one is able to talk to the television screen but the television will not be able communicate back thus not accomplishing much. For Peters, communication can be accomplished even if it is only one way. Peter explains that one-way communication is not necessarily a bad thing (56). Even though dialogue seems like a better form of communication, Peters believes that reciprocity can be violent. He claims that violent acts such as war works on the basis of reciprocity just like a conversation so a dialogue can be as destructive as…
Sacrificing conventional lives is one of the ways for people to obtain a more fulfilled life. In the short story “ The Singing Silence”, the author Eva-Lis Wuorio tells us a life story of the main character Vicente. Vicente is a person that doesn’t have life stability but has achieved a fulfilled life. First, he worked as a porter on a quay, at which he set himself a goal: to be a successful porter. Secondly, he accidentally made a serious mistake, for which he determined to make up for the loss. Thirdly, Vicente tried to learn a completely new activity in his 60s, which turned out to be another goal to attain. Finally, he realized his dreams dramatically. Through this story, Eva-Lis Wuorio intends for the reader to appreciate that individuals may become more fulfilled if we sacrifice conventional lives because we will always have a new struggling aim resulting in our active participation in our jobs, confidence about the amending for our mistakes, courage to face challenges and the understanding of real life meaning. .…
The quietest people are often the most powerful because a person's facial and body motions can, for the most part, speak louder than words. For example, Supreme Court Justice Clarence Thomas hasn’t spoke up once during verbal arguments in the past five years. This shows that even the quietest people can still make a change and be powerful. Some other examples are in the book, To Kill a Mockingbird by Harper Lee, characters like Atticus Finch and Boo Radley both show that sometimes quiet people are powerful.…
I thought that Silent Ears, Silent Heart was an excellent book. It really gave you a full prospective of what a family and a person has to go through living a life without being able to hear sound it also helps you realize what someone has to go through that can’t hear what is going on around them. The book starts off with a couple named the Clines there’s Mr. Cline who is Jack who runs his own multimillion dollar business in a glass production. His dream is to have his son at his side and follow in his footsteps and run the family business someday. Then there’s Mrs. Cline who is Margret who is a stay at home wife that is waiting the arrival of their child.…
"To talk much and arrive nowhere is the same as climbing a tree to catch a fish”2…
The following example shows how it applied to the muted group theory, in culture, and language through nonverbal communication. A woman whom did not state her name was physically used for sex while on a date. Later, she told herself she was okay and did not tell anybody. This woman did not want to tell anyone because of the fact that she did not want to believe she was raped. As she caused physical harm to herself by cutting her wrist, and not telling anybody she performed a form of nonverbal communication. Shortly after her parents found the scars on her wrist the next step for her was being sent to the hospital to get physical and psychological help. Many of the actions and secrets that were talked about in this story have a direct relation to this theory because of what has taken place. Also, this shows that the male in this specific case in the story overpowered the woman and her language by disrespecting her wishes not to be…
that communication is the understanding not of the visible but of the invisible and hidden.…