Secure attachment can be observed at different stages of the child life. Between 8 and 18 months old, a child will look at his caregiver from time to time, because he needs to be reassured. From 18 months old, the child will strengthen his relationship with the caregiver, so both will act as a partner in the relationship. The child will actively start to engage with his caregiver and will even …show more content…
Then, when his caregiver returns, the child will stop crying if he was crying. He should also show his interest for his caregiver because he enjoys being reunited with her (Kail & Cavanaugh, 2013, p.170).
In order to build a secure attachment with their child, the caregiver should respond quickly and appropriately to their child’s needs. This way, the child will know he can trust his caregiver in any situation and depend on him (Kail & Cavanaugh, 2013, p.173).
Some babies may have a difficult temperament. Thus, it can get extremely challenging and frustrating for caregivers to calm down a very fussy baby. In such situation, some caregivers might tend to reject their baby and not be as responsive to their baby’s needs. This is why caregivers can be trained to learn how to be patient, gentle and connect with their babies to create a secure attachment (Kail & Cavanaugh, 2013,