Pros And Cons Of Conflict Theory

Discussion #2 According to the book, conflict theory recognizes that tensions, stressors, and divergent interests are an integral and normal part of family life. Furthermore, conflict theory is rooted in the assumption that conflict is an integral component of human nature (Walsh, Deflorio, Burnham, & Weiser, 98) and I agree. Therefore, the way my family handle conflict is we try to come to some type of agreement by negotiating with each other, that way everybody is satisfied to some degree, for example, deciding what to eat for dinner. One person wants pizza and the other Chinese food. We will discuss the pros and cons of both foods together. In addition, we will discuss how long it been since we had one of the food choices. The one we probably have not had in a while will probably be our choice unless someone still disagree. If that the case, we will begin to negotiate with each other and come to some type of agreement.
In my family, I think conflict is a healthy experience when everybody is considered in the decision-making process. According to the book, families which are able to negotiate and find agreement are families with optimal outcomes (Walsh, Deflorio, Burnham, & Weiser,98). Like mention previously about choosing what to eat, when we negotiate with each other and reach an agreement, everybody seems satisfied(happy) with the outcome. I believe conflict can be healthy experience for families because it can teach them how to work together, increase their communication and negotiation skills. Lastly, I believe conflict can help a family strive to reach their full potential, for example, having a lack of resources in money, energy, time etc. The family can identify their conflict and then try to set goals to minimize their conflict together, which in return help them reach their full potential in that area in their