Every parent has his or hers own personal philosophy when it comes to raising children. There are many controversial issues surrounding this topic because many different people have many different opinions on how to raise a child correctly. One of the biggest issues today in society is whether to breast or bottle feed an infant. Another difficult issue is how to go about disciplining a child. Many parents believe religion is an essential part of growing into a moral person, and many do not. Some families see having meals together as important while others don't. Another controversy is placing a child in daycare. Some parents believe it is completely wrong for the mother to work outside the home. Other parents say that without two incomes, they would not be able to make it financially. Also many parents don’t like to talk to their child about sex or sexuality which is unfortunate because it’s important. When I have children, I want them to be breast fed. I think that it is far better for the child's health than bottle feeding. There is a fluid that comes in before the real milk called Colostrum this fluid allows the baby to receive a stronger immune system that will help them fight off infections, and it also help them gain the necessary weight faster than they would receive from formula. In breast milk, eight percent of the cells are macrophages. These cells help kill different kind’s of viruses, fungus, and bacteria. Breast feeding can be much easier and convenient, because it can be done at any time, without preparation. With bottle feeding, there are lots of bottles to wash, finding the right formulas to mix, refrigeration to worry about, and warming of the milk that all must be done. This is all very time consuming for new parents to deal with. Perhaps the best advantage to breast feeding is the low cost. Parents must have a healthy eating plan, but it cannot cost more than their budget will allow. Formula is very expensive and new parents can't always afford it. Breast feeding satisfies a child's natural urge to suck. Breastfeeding allows the child to suck as long as he needs to, and this might reduce the chances of thumb-sucking later on in life. I believe breast feeding allows a mother and their child to form a bond with each other. It allows them to feel close and this is something that bottle feeding cannot provide. Discipline is another decision that must be made when raising a child. One overriding rule when it comes to discipline. I always want to be kept informed on what my child is up to, where they are, where they are going, and what they are doing. If I have a problem with it (such as them not having their homework done, or if I think it's too dangerous or stupid), I'll let them know. If they want to be out until midnight (only when their teenagers), they have to ask me, and if there is a good enough reason, I probably won't have a problem with it. I'm not going to set a lot of ridiculous rules on them unless they show me that they cannot handle the freedom and responsibility that comes with it. If they can't then I will treat them like children. I never EVER want them to start a fight at school (except under the most extreme of circumstances) or bully anyone, because bully's suck. They must show respect for their teacher’s and if they don't get the right kind of respect from their teachers I want them to tell me. If someone ever starts a fight with them by hitting them physically, I want my kid to WIN, and make them remember but to also understand that there will be consequences like detention or suspension, but that is life and life is not always fair, but that too is a part of life. If someone isn't nice to them, I want them to try to understand why, and realize that it probably has to do with them and their own insecurities and that they don't have a very high opinion of themselves, so it's not worth them fighting about it. If someone at school just won't...
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