It shows how oppressed she is because of how society thinks that women are inferior to men. This type of oppression is evident by the way her husband, Torvald Helmer, manipulates her in all aspects of her life. Torvald is very authoritative and tells Nora to act a certain way and even to dress a certain way. He is the type of man who is so focused on social and physical appearance that he cares more about his reputation than his wife that he claims to love. Although Nora and Torvald’s relationship seem to be perfect on the outside, it is not what at all what it appears to be. Torvald constantly treats Nora as if she were a child (or a doll) but nearing the end of the play, Nora realizes how fake her relationship with her husband had been all throughout the years of being married to him. At this point in the play, Nora still struggles to find her own authentic identity, while Torvald establishes an identity for her. In Torvald’s eyes, he believes Nora’s duty as his wife is to always be loving and to take care of him and the children. Torvald doesn’t take Nora seriously or think she has any sort of wisdom, which can be seen when he refers to her with pet names like “little squirrel”(Ibsen, 1282) Torvald doesn’t think that Nora can think for herself and insults her because she is a woman with comments like “Of course you couldn’t, poor little girl.” (Ibsen, 1284) In the society they lived in, Torvald was …show more content…
An identity that will discontinue the illusions she had of a perfect life and instead becomes a new person with new beliefs that focus on no one but herself. It has finally been brought to her attention that her whole life has been full of pretending and basically, a lie. When reality hits her in the face, Nora says “Papa called me his doll-child, and he played with me just as I used to play with my dolls. And when I came to live with you—“(Ibsen, 1328) Ibsen refers to dolls because dolls are controlled by their owners and have no say in anything. Dolls cannot do anything with the owner being there to maneuver them—just like Nora when her inauthentic identity was all that she knew. But once Nora stood up to Torvald and does the opposite of what he says, that’s when Nora’s authentic identity is born. At the end of the play, Nora expresses how she feels to Torvald: “You are not to feel yourself bound in the slightest way any, any more than I shall. There must be perfect freedom on both sides. See here is your ring back. Give me mine.” Finally, Nora cuts all her ties with him and does not tolerate his manipulations and longer. Nora is finally standing up for herself and leads her to a brand new confidence in search for her deserving independence. Nora is finally free from