Not Me, Not Now: Pledging Abstinence

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Some simply see sex as a thing to do, for me it is much more than that. I was brought up to believe that sex is supposed to be something special that you do with the one you love. Today this “special” act is viewed as just the opposite. Kids and young adults do not care because they feel “it’s just sex”. It is sad to think that most take this topic so lightly. That is why I have chosen to be abstinent and wait to engage in sexual activity until marriage. This is a personal choice of mine, and I know some may agree or disagree.

With all the emphasis on the importance of using condoms and birth control to ensure safer sex, I feel the intelligent choice of abstinence is being highly overlooked. It is sometimes viewed as old-fashioned and based solely on religion, but in theory it is a plausible decision for one to make. The word abstinence means to abstain or refrain from something. People tend to forget its specific meaning, and feel that those who make this choice judge the ones that do not. Making this choice myself, I will set the record straight that abstinence is strictly a personal choice and others have absolute no influence. Many of my closest friends have chosen to have sex, and I have and always will be there for them no matter what decisions they make. They too stand by me with the decisions I make, despite the fact that they may be different.

Not having sex may seem easy because it's not doing anything. On the contrary, peer pressure and things on TV and in the movies can make the decision to practice abstinence more difficult. If it seems like everybody else is having sex, some people may feel they have to do it too, just to be accepted. Don't let kidding or pressure from friends, a girlfriend, a boyfriend, or even the media push you into something that is not right for you. A couple can still have a relationship without having sex. I believe couples who wait have a more intimate and personal relationship with their...
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