Love vs. Infatuation

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Infatuation vs. Love

"Infatuation might lead you to do things you regret, but love never steers you in the wrong direction." The following quote is a very basic clarification of two words that are extremely puzzling, at times. The two words are love and infatuation, which are two types of ways to show affection to a special person. Occasionally adolescents, and even adults always think about a special someone, but does it necessarily mean that person is really "the one?" It can be easy to confuse infatuation and love because they have many similarities but differences as well. Infatuation is when you are completely carried away by unreasoned passion. Usually one is inspired with intense but short-lived passion and admiration for someone. It is extravagant or foolish love. Some think that it may be the first step towards love and can grow into more mature love. Infatuation begins when you seek out the most beautiful girl, cutest guy and so on. Love is blind. It isn’t affected by physical attraction, appearance, or even human nature. To truly love someone involves overlooking all flaws and imperfections. Infatuation is a feeling; real love involves a commitment also. Infatuation is just love of emotion. Real love is love of devotion. Only the emotion are infected with infatuation, but in real love both emotions and will are involved. Next, a person “falls into” infatuation, but “grows into” love. Physical attraction is a big involvement with infatuation. You often don’t know much in-depth about the person you so-called love. When you lust someone you want them simply because they are physically attractive, or you are feeling sexually deprived or frustrated. Infatuation is basically selfish where real love is selfless. Being infatuated is when your more interested in satisfying yourself and your feelings than it is in the other person. Real love is being interested in the other person. It seeks to give instead of get. Lastly, infatuation is weakened by time...
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