Because of that guidance, I have begun to understand who I am, and who I want to be, as…
Many people in my life have prepared me for my future and have taught me how to handle any obstacle thrown my way. My parents have inspired me to never settle for anything but the best, and have taught me the value of hard work and perseverance. Both of my parents came from families without a strong financial basis or a stronghold of people who believed that they could excel; moreover, this led my parents to becoming doctors and providing support in every aspect for my sister and I. My parents’ determination has led to my belief in the veracious message: nothing is going to be handed to you because you must work to make something happen. As I have gotten older and realize the little time I have left sheltered by my parents, this idea has prepared me for the real world due to the fact that I know not to take anything for granted, but to work for what I want to accomplish in life.…
Having two older sisters who didn’t make it through high school and is living from paycheck to paycheck and job to job is a struggling experience to witness. Without a college degree, you’re at the bottom of the hire list and the top of the fire list. My sister landed an amazing job at a daycare facility in a low income area. She was so thrilled because this was the first job in 4 years that she wasn’t making minimum wage. She quit her two fast food jobs and immediately started at the daycare. After about 3 months, she was laid off. They had just recently hired a lady with a bachelor’s degree in early childhood education and although you can’t fire someone because another person better applied for the job, they simply said it was evaluation related. She came home crying because she had to find another job fast. She doesn’t have any credit cards, savings accounts, or even extra “pocket” money from getting paid. After that dispiriting week, she said seriously, “Aliyah, don’t follow in my footsteps. Be the best you can. Not just for you but for your future.” A role model can come with many different stories and…
I have learned that certain things happen for a reason and they all add together to make my future. I did not understand that much, as a child, but now I have started to put the pieces together in hopes of shaping my future. When I was an infant, I began to suffer severely from Trichotillomania, a disorder that caused me to pull out my hair for no apparent reason. This lasted for eight long years. I had to maintain my self-love while others sought ways to exclude me for being hairless. I did not expect to be physically different from the norm, but that small puzzle piece added to who I am today: an erudite student driven to encourage others to find their true worth.…
In spite of all the health warnings, teenagers continue to get hooked on tobacco even though they all know that it 's bad for them. Why do teens start to smoke? Teens find acceptance by peers if they smoke too. They often use cigarette smoking to avoid the pressures of everyday living.…
The biggest factor of teen smoking is Peer Pressure. If your friends pressure you into smoking then they're obviously not good mates to have. It is not a stable friendship when someone is being pressured into something. Many worry that if they say 'no' they're mates will think they're stupid but you have to realise they are the stupid ones.…
As reflect on my life, I see how my upbringing has developed me into the person I am today. My family, childhood, childhood dreams, and life experiences that have helped me become the person I am today. My life has taken left turns. I am exactly where I want to be, even if I didn’t take the road I thought I would to get there. It would have never happened without the help from my family, extended family and friends. I have been given the tools and support the reach all my goals – past, present, and…
I signed up for mostly honors classes, but I didn’t realize how much work it would take. This was especially true with Spanish class. When it came to Spanish, I thought it should be easy. After getting a few disappointing grades though, I thought about dropping to an easier Spanish class. That felt like defeat, so I stuck with it but continued to receive mediocre grades. However, then I started to realize you couldn’t “figure Spanish out” the day of the test like you could sometimes do in other subjects. You really had to study and you had to know it. I started…
As you grow up, you learn many lessons from the adults around you, soaking in every gesture, word, and action. As a child, you strive to be your parents, or better yet, your older sister. I am the youngest of four. I have two older brothers, and an older sister, all of them have influenced my life and given me the motivation to work harder to be the students, leaders, and good people that they are today. However, growing up in a big household can bring confusion to who you truly are. Over the years, you fight for attention (or with each other), and it is easy to lose who you are along the way. Within myself, I have found someone with leadership qualities, perseverance, personality, and good-citizenship.…
“ Sisters function as safety nets in a chaotic world simply by being there for each other.” –Carol Saline. My sister, Marissa, is the most intelligent and brutally honest person I will ever know. She’s 5’1 and scared of eyeballs, but university level Chemistry doesn’t stand a chance against her. Her persona influenced me to speak my mind and not let people take advantage of me. Marissa’s strong will, made the person who is writing this essay. I know this sounds very cliché but she has literally been there for me through…
My life and character are not defined by the situations or difficulties I encounter but by the way I respond to these. The core values, personal traits, and capacities that composed the person I am today and the goals I have set for my future have all had a beginning and a development. My identity and aspirations have been, and continue to be, formed and bolstered by various meaningful experiences and supportive individuals.…
When discussing anything that has to do with teens, it’s important to remember that adolescence is time of change. Teens are going through puberty and their relationships with their peers become more important. This time of change along with pressure from peers lead to teens trying new things including experimenting with drugs and alcohol. “Young people between the ages of 15 and 19 years old comprise the largest group of new drinkers in the United States, and almost 50% of adolescents who use marijuana say they first used it when they were 13 years old or younger” (Gordon, 2003). Gordon (2003) also says “most adolescents who experiment with drugs and alcohol do not become addicted. They generally begin with occasional experimentation with alcohol and tobacco, progressing to use of these drugs whenever they are easily available. Those who move onward to abuse and addiction do not stop with occasional use. They begin to use marijuana, tobacco,…
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As toddlers when we are born we are cared for endlessly by our parents, older siblings and other family members. When we begin to grow up and mature physically and mentally, we become aware of our surroundings and adapt to particular situations or circumstances. From a child, I became accustomed to many things but I also had to learn many things. My parents instilled within me the values and discipline one must possess to become efficient in society. My older brother and sister gave me the courage to push forward and aim for the best that I could accomplish no matter what. The family, from my point of view, is the sole foundation of any individual’s life and as a result it is the most influential agent on my personality as a person. I owe a lot to my family in the way I am right now and the person I’m proud to be. Standing up for myself and taking on new challenges and embedding myself in our society has helped me realize how important my family is as an agent of socialization and what it means for everyone. I have learnt that I need to work along with others in order to create a better place for everyone. My personality and the way I see things is largely as a result of…
Many teens these days indulge in high-risk behaviors, for instance drug use. Teens often start doing drugs "to be cool, or fit in", the result of peer pressure, speak from experience. I smoked my first joint of marijuana with a couple of my friends when I was a freshman in high school. I have always been rebellious in my lifetime so I gave it a shot. We went to my friend Mikes older brothers friends house who was having a party that night and we were asked if we wanted to some "pot" nervously we all said alright and got high. Yes, I still smoke weed, and think nothing of it; I do not find it wrong in any way although it has gotten me into many other drugs.…