Judgement Is Ruining A Person's Life

Judgement can ruin someone’s life when you see me, what do you think ? “oh look its Ron Wesley” or do you think “wow, he needs a hair cut”, see us gingers need to watch out… cause of global warming of course, no but seriously being ginger is hard because you don’t get your own nickname, if your ginger your nickname is always ginger it’s a fact, but me being ginger is just the way I look, I cant help that. Just the way someone looks can actually change their entire life, why? Because if you look ugly and skinny, people tend to judge you harshly, and judgement can ruin someone life.

There are two main types of judging behavior. There’s the type when we treat
Thomas A. Richards is a Ph.D. Psychologist and he said: Social anxiety is the fear of social situations and the interaction with other people that can automatically bring on feelings of self-consciousness, judgment, evaluation, and scrutiny. In other words, social anxiety is the fear of being judged and evaluated negatively by other people, leading to feelings of inadequacy, embarrassment, humiliation, and depression.
I know someone who had something horrible happen to her, possibly the worst thing to ever happen to a girl. She got raped and from that she then developed many mental illnesses, she suffered with depression, anxiety and she constantly had suicidal thoughts and would regularly self harm, this led her to serious drug abuse. One day when she was under the influence of alcohol and cannabis she broke down in tears and told me that worst thing was the way people look at her, she thought that it was her fault that she got raped and that she was a slag and a slut and this was surprising to me. It shocking that someone who has suffered so much still gets judged so harshly, its just unfair. people would call her a attention seeker and slut and it almost killed her, from people judging her so much she led to drugs and self harming, because of judgment and self judgement she almost