If difficult situations arise, my initial reaction is to fight. I take the time to do reflect and think of the best way to deal with the difficult situation so I can move on. I stay calm and face the problem head on. I “own” my part of the solution. I am a responsible person. I take responsibility for my actions, good or bad. My initial reaction may affect my ability to resolve a situation effectively. If I react by facing the situation head on, I will be able to move on with my life a lot quicker. The situation won’t scare me …show more content…
How would you rate your level of resiliency? Besides your results from the survey, How Resilient Am I? recall times in your life where you had to deal with problems that threatened your progress – how did you handle these situations? In hindsight, did you make the best choice given the options at the time?
I would rate my level of resiliency on a scale of one to ten at about an eight. There are a few times in my life where I had to deal with problems that threatened my progress. The one that stands out is when I lost my Grand-mother in spring of 2013. It was a very hard time. We lost her to cancer. It is especially hard when someone dies from something so uncontrollable such as cancer. Anyways, I handled this situation by talking to my parents and other relatives about how and I felt and how they felt. It really helped we offered support to each other and I was able to get through it and go back to living my life. In hindsight, given the options at the time, I made the right decision. I only had two options drown in sorrow from losing her or keep living my life, because she is in a better place and would want all of us to keep