Happiness is one of the most difficult things to wrap a mind around, and that is why it is difficult to understand. In the start of the movie Gilbert was fed up with his responsibilities, his family, and basically everything else. Then one day, boom a girl shows up in a beat up camper that Gilbert falls head over heels for. Suddenly his mindset on life changes. He starts to realize that family and friends are what means most. Gilbert struggles in the start in the film because “We do not always confront happiness head on” (Kingwell, 413). Although soon after Beckie shows up he confronts her head on, because she is what truly makes him happy. He didn’t understand his life, his family, or his adversaries. Until Beckie lead him to realize that what he had was special. Gilbert did not understand that what he had should make him a very happy person. From that moment on, Gilbert was happy. He was happy with Arnie, his mother, his job, and most importantly Beckie. What all of this personally tells me is that happiness is a very diverse thing for everyone. No one is going to understand their life fully, but one thing is for sure: true love really
Happiness is one of the most difficult things to wrap a mind around, and that is why it is difficult to understand. In the start of the movie Gilbert was fed up with his responsibilities, his family, and basically everything else. Then one day, boom a girl shows up in a beat up camper that Gilbert falls head over heels for. Suddenly his mindset on life changes. He starts to realize that family and friends are what means most. Gilbert struggles in the start in the film because “We do not always confront happiness head on” (Kingwell, 413). Although soon after Beckie shows up he confronts her head on, because she is what truly makes him happy. He didn’t understand his life, his family, or his adversaries. Until Beckie lead him to realize that what he had was special. Gilbert did not understand that what he had should make him a very happy person. From that moment on, Gilbert was happy. He was happy with Arnie, his mother, his job, and most importantly Beckie. What all of this personally tells me is that happiness is a very diverse thing for everyone. No one is going to understand their life fully, but one thing is for sure: true love really