Strindberg once said, “That is the thankless position of the father in the family…the provider for all, and the enemy of all” (1). Sadly, men have been held accountable for the lack of participation in their child’s life and only regarded to be important during conception. Afterwards some are considered to be a headache. It is natural for women to give birth as well as being more of a nurturer for feeding and caring for the child, which often leads people to believe that women make better parents than men. Though women are more involved with their children, I strongly believe that men can equally regard as good parents. The need for love has always been an important factor when it comes to raising children because it is built into us biologically. This need is what allows parents to forgo sleep, food and sanity while raising their children. However, they are also many ways men can bring unique strengths to their relationship with their children as a father. In reality, you can point out the contributions, and see that fathers, just like mothers, always matter. Many experts now believe that fathers can be just as nurturing and sensitive with their children as mothers. As their children grow, fathers take on added roles of guiding their children’s intellectual and social development (Parke). Even when a father is “just playing” with his child, he is nurturing their development. Biller argues that, “The quality of the father’s involvement during this period is a crucial factor in determining whether the child develops the confidence and competence to meet new challenges in a positive manner” (qtd. in Parke). Fathers stimulate emotional stability in the house from the children and the mother. This is due to the forced composure of their presence. Fathers command composure with their presence by them being a figure of authority to the kids and the voice of reason to the mother. Fathers tend to spend more time playing with their children, and the...
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