This paper is a summary of my development throughout life. I have explained through developmental theories and scholarly articles about the experiences I have been through. The experiences that I have been through show the struggle I had with Identity and bullying. I was well as others have been through a lot of experiences that define my life. In all this paper explains my life through the interviews of those I know as well as scholarly articles and a book. My mother, grandmother, dad and cheerleading coach all helped me out with this research.
Faith means noticing the mess, the emptiness and discomfort, and letting it be there until some light returns. My name is Samantha Doyle and I am going to tell you about the development of my life. My life has been a very good life and I am going to tell you about the development throughout my life beginning bringing in the theory's of Albert Bandura and the Attachment theory. I will also talk about some of the controversial issues discussed like maternal employment and daycare among others.
My mom said she had a terrible time giving birth to me! In the womb I was a easy baby. For being the first my mother did not have much trouble. However, when my mom went into birth she told me it was not good. The due date for my birth was November sixth. However, she went in to the hospital November eighteenth, and I wasn't born until November nineteenth. This was really hard for because she was in the hospital for almost two days before I was actually born. When I was born she and my dad told me that I had scars on my face. This was because they used the forceps to pull me out. My grandpa just told me I looked tough, I was born on his birthday. I was a very loud baby! I liked to scream all the time. My mom said that she always new I would turn out to be a loud child and person. As an infant I was not able to be breast fed. I was actually allergic to the milk so I had to have some sort of soy substitute. This was tough on my parents because it was hard for them to figure out at first. Breast feeding is looked at favorably, however, my mom did not breast feed me, the article Breastfeeding and the child cognitive outcomes: a propensity score matching approach, says that it is okay to not breastfeed. They say that there is only a small window where cognitive processes may be affected. Also I read that "guilt may be more damaging to the child, especially if it interferes with attachment and/or contributes to maternal depression". (Jiang, & Foster, & Gibson-Davis,(2011). This clearly shows that it is okay to not breastfeed and there shouldn't be guilt put on those who don't.
Up until the age of four my family lived in a little house by the middle school in Waterloo. This was great for my toddler self. We lived next to a great big park. My dad told me he used to always bring me to the park to play because It was some of the only outdoor time he had on the weekends. My dad worked all week at a eight to seven job. He is a UPS driver and was always very busy during the week. I went to the babysitter down the street. I remember hating this. However, I was also lucky because another boy that went there was my age and we became really good friends. In the article, Attunement between parents and professional caregivers: a comparison of a child rearing attitudes in different child-care settings, they state that to "a certain degree, however, some lack of attunement may provide the child with opportunities to learn and to develop skills for dealing with a heterogeneous network of relationships later in life." (Van Ijzendoorn & Tavecchio & Stams & Verhoeven & Reiling, 1998). They are clearly stating that attunement which is the continuity and consistency of a child is okay to be lacking because the child might learn from it. This is a strong statement because it says that although attunement is a good thing, it also good to know that putting your...