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Comparing The Stories 'Penny In The Dust And The Leaving'
It is more challenging to be a parent than it is to be a child. This is represented throughout the short stories, “Penny in the Dust”, and, “The Leaving.” Both of these stories show how being a parent can be hard, the job of motherhood, and trying to mend broken relationships within the family, back together. The characters in these stories go through hard times; trying to connect with their family members that they may have an ongoing trial of miscommunication with. Parents will always have a couple of bumps along the way in their parenting, and most-likely experience rough patches with the relationships in the family.

As a parent, misunderstandings between husband and wife are common. As well as verbally abusive relationships, and feeling

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