Written Assignment Part 1
Human Sexual Behaviour
February 26, 2013
Present information given in your book on that theme.
The “Coming out” process also known as “coming out of the closet” is a turn of phrase for Lesbian, Gay and Bisexual(LGB) people who reveal their sexual orientation to the people around them. The process of “coming out” is never easy for many gay people. They are ashamed of themselves and for what people will think about them. They are afraid to tell their friends and family because they feel as if they won’t be accepted anymore. There are six stages in the coming out process, the first stage is identity confusion, and this is the stage when the person going through this experience cannot accept the fact that he or she is gay. They usually ask themselves several times “who am I?’. They are confused with their sexual orientation; in this stage they usually consider themselves liking someone of the opposite sex only because they don’t want to be different. Gays, lesbians and bisexuals usually question their identity and usually hide it by dating people of the opposite sex. The second stage is identity comparison; this is the stage where the person now thinks “I may be gay”. They start getting this feeling because they realize they are not attracted to the opposite sex, but they are really attracted to the same-sex person. Then the third stage comes along called identity tolerance this is the stage where the person tolerates their orientation more than accepting it and goes out in the world to find other gays, lesbians or bisexuals to make contact with people like them. The fourth stage is identity acceptance; this is the stage where a person tells themselves “I am gay” and accepts the fact that, that is their sexual orientation and that’s how they were made. The fifth stage is identity pride; this is the stage where the person starts pushing away from heterosexual people and moving towards gay people. Also by comparing them saying that the gay people are right in a more powerful way and the heterosexual people are not. This may also be the stage where the person comes out because they feel more confidence towards their orientation. The sixth and final stage is identity synthesis; this is the stage where the gay person no longer holds a grudge against heterosexual people because they realize that there are some supporting heterosexual people. Researchers have found that some people don’t go through all these stages or at least not in order. Some people don’t accept who they are and may start having psychological problems or they might even commit suicide.
One of my best male friends since childbirth is gay. He has finally “came out of the closet” about a year ago. Before that I have always sensed it, the first time I thought he was gay was when we were 9 years old and I went to his pool something told me he was gay just because of his mannerisms. He started dating girls at a young age, but now that I read this I realized he was doing it because he felt something, but did not want to admit it. I also recently found out that he would talk to other boys online as a way of staying at home and not feeling publically embarrassed. He also recently told me that he use to “cut himself” because he didn’t want to accept that he was gay and couldn’t believe that it was happening to him. He finally opened up and said he was gay and now he’s just living a normal life because he got that burden of telling everyone off his chest. Also mentioned in the book are people “coming out” at a late age because they do not want to ruin their careers because they are scared they might get fired. Sport athletes especially go through this phase because they do not want to mention that they are gay until they retire because they do not want people to not accept them. a) What was the research question?
The research question of the peer review article I found is “how a widespread homophobic...
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