Close Relationships Ensure Independence

People with avoidant attachment tend to be comfortable without close emotional relationships. It is very important to them to feel independent and have self-sufficient. They prefer not to depend on others or have others depend on them because they already accepted their situation towards separation. People with this attachment style desire a high level of independence. The desire for independence often appears as an attempt to avoid attachment altogether. Because they have already accepted the separation towards their attachment figure, they view themselves as self-sufficient and safe to feelings associated with being closely attached to others. They often deny needing close relationships. Some may even view close relationships as relatively