Introduction and background.
Christian Marriage, also called Matrimony is a sacrament in which a man and a woman publicly declare their love and fidelity in front of witnesses, a priest or minister and God. The It is seen by all Christian churches as both a physical and spiritual fulfillment. Christianity emphasises that the sacrament of Holy Matrimony is a lifetime commitment. So they are no longer two, but one. Therefore, what God has joined together, let no one separate."' —Matthew 19:6. Saint Paul interpreted the word of Christ on divorce and wrote “To the married I give charge, not I but the Lord, that the wife should not separate from her husband, but if she does, let her remain single or else be reconciled to her husband – and that the husband should not divorce is wife” (1 Cor 7:10-11).
Christian views on marriage were first documented in the Gospels. 'The Creator "made them male and female," and said, "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh"' —Matthew 19:4–5. Christians believe that marriage signifies a male and a female becoming one in flesh, soul and spirit. It represents the love that the couple share for each other and represents God's love for humanity.
When a man and a woman get married they are blessed by God in the same way that Adam and Eve were blessed upon creation. “And God blessed them, and God said unto them, “Be fruitful and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it; and have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth.” —Genesis 1:28. When God blessed Man and Woman, he gave them his permission to procreate. This established the Christian lore that premarital sex is forbidden as the relationship has not been blessed by God.
Christian beliefs, as portrayed in the sacrament of marriage. Fidelity is a value that all Christian adherents believe they should poses. When Christians marry, they agree to be forever faithful to their partner. The Ten Commandments are the foundation of Christian ethics and morality, the seventh being “Thou shalt not commit adultery.” —Exodus 20:14. The fact that God included this as one of his commandments to Moses as part of the covenant with his people is a reflection of the importance of the sanctity of marriage withing the Christian churches. Saint Paul reinforces God's message that fidelity and faithfulness within marriage is essential in his Letters to the Hebrews ‘Marriage is to be honored by all and husbands and wives must be faithful to each other. God will judge those who are immoral and those who commit adultery’. —Hebrews 13:4
In Pope Pius XI's papal encyclical, the Casti Connubii, he reinforces the importance of fidelity in upholding the sanctity of marriage. He elaborates on Christ's teachings on adultery of the heart, as seen in the Gospel according to Matthew. “But I say unto you, that whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.”—Matthew 5:28. Pope Pius explains that the sanctity of marriage can not be disregarded even with permission from one of the parties of the marriage. Which words of Christ Our Lord cannot be annulled even by the consent of one of the partners of marriage for they express a law of God and of nature which no will of man can break or bend.—Casti Connubii (1930)
Love is an essential part of a marriage within the Christian churches. God's love for mankind is replicated in the process of marriage within the couple. Saint Paul speaks of the importance of love between a husband and wife in his Letter to the Ephesians. “Husbands, love your wives even as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for it...So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He hat loveth his wife loveth himself. For no man ever yet hated his own flesh, but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the...