Preview

Bullying

Good Essays
Open Document
Open Document
787 Words
Grammar
Grammar
Plagiarism
Plagiarism
Writing
Writing
Score
Score
Bullying
Brina Miltenberger
Dual Credit English
Mr. Shroyer
21 August 2009

Your Attitude in Life Determines Your Altitude

I ask myself, why me? What did I do to deserve this? How do I make it stop? Will it ever stop? During my school years, I have become the victim of cruelty, gossip, and abuse; I continue to encounter these bullying actions today. The harsh rumors are endless and the viciousness is uncontrollable. Surprisingly enough, I have found out how strong I am and have learned ways to defeat the unpleasant feelings I get because of the bullying. My mother raised me by saying, “Your attitude in life determines your altitude.” This saying strongly relates to an experience I had in school.
Our school has informed students about the concern for bullying and the ‘no tolerance policy’ towards it by sending information to homes to notify parents of the harassment happening in the school. I, personally, never thought I would be the victim of this brutal pain. I see myself as a very caring and forgiving person; I accept everyone and try to help others when possible. I do not believe in groups or cliques. To me everyone is special.
During school, clubs, sport events and even the internet, Lisa continues to taunt me. Passing her in the hallway makes my stomach turn. She always has a comment to make, such as “Wow, Brina, how long did it take you to put that outfit together? Trying hard are we?” I just put my head down and continue on my way. I must admit at times, I do not know how I make it to school and through the next day. Whenever we are in a classroom together, she will make a remark as soon as I walk in. Sometimes they sting, but most of the time, the rude comments and remarks just hit me so hard that I just want to be out of this place. All the hurt and abuse gets overwhelming at times and it takes a lot to hold back the tears.
Sitting at lunch in the cafeteria makes me feel like a little field mouse minding his own business while a hawk is

You May Also Find These Documents Helpful

  • Satisfactory Essays

    bullying

    • 364 Words
    • 6 Pages

    a) 16 x3 y  2 y3  xy 2  5xy 4 : _______________________…

    • 364 Words
    • 6 Pages
    Satisfactory Essays
  • Best Essays

    Bullying in schools has become a prominent issue in education over the last decade. This essay will consider this issue from a personal, theoretical and analytical perspective. Firstly, I will scrutinize over the difficulty of arriving at a common definition of bullying. I will look at ways in which lines are blurred for academic theorists to decide on a clear, universal definition of the social phenomenon of bullying and then continue on by reviewing my personal experiences of bullying through my education. Secondly, I would like to consider bullying as a social and educational issue brought to light by constant media coverage indicating the way the media can add ‘fuel to the fire’ by constructing…

    • 3861 Words
    • 16 Pages
    Best Essays
  • Satisfactory Essays

    bullying

    • 792 Words
    • 2 Pages

    The main idea in Lee Tunstall's article is how bullying impacts our society. Tunstall given information on bullying in school, cyberbullying and in the workplace. Lee Tunstall explains how important bullying is as a crime and how people are constantly affected by bullying.…

    • 792 Words
    • 2 Pages
    Satisfactory Essays
  • Better Essays

    The teachers see the school as “bully-free” because their soft eyes refuse to see the brutality of some kids and the fragility of others. My teachers would never suspect I cork my emotions into a glass bottle with the word caution smeared across the front. To them I haven’t a care in the world. They refuse to believe that I am alone, or that I’m not as smart as they may expect, or that I care about being these things. They ignore the years I’ve spent alone. They don’t know that I squeeze myself into the lunch table, between two groups of friends. I don’t have any “friends.” I only have a few people who tolerate…

    • 1828 Words
    • 8 Pages
    Better Essays
  • Good Essays

    90% of all students between 4th and 8th grade are bullied physically or verbally during their schooling. I was one of those students – told daily that I was fat and never going anywhere in life. Bullying continues to tremble the ground with its every advancing step and scare its’ victims and bystanders with its extensive roar. Bullying was something that walked into my life in elementary school and tortured me throughout middle school. Nonetheless, I did not lose hope and I fought back.…

    • 601 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Powerful Essays

    Constantly being surrounded by people and animals created a hectic lifestyle for my family and me which has encouraged us to manage our time better as we got older. After we left private school for public school, I experienced the most difficult year of my life. In addition to being “the new kid,” I was bullied. At the time, I did not realize what it was because the bullies acted like my friends, but after they attacked me during lunch—pouring milk all over my hair—the janitor told a teacher who intervened. The principal interrogated me, making it appear as though it was my fault for being bullied,…

    • 1395 Words
    • 6 Pages
    Powerful Essays
  • Satisfactory Essays

    Bullying

    • 533 Words
    • 3 Pages

    C. What percent of the time will an argument with a bully develop into a physical fight?…

    • 533 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Satisfactory Essays
  • Satisfactory Essays

    Bullying

    • 359 Words
    • 2 Pages

    The article I chose for the review is Addressing Abuse, Harassment and Bullying in Sports. Athletes must feel safe and comfortable in their training setting in order to gain the most benefit from the program. The role of the Strength and Conditioning coach is to make that for the athletes. All facilities should have a Policies and Procedures Manual in open sight. It must include emergency action plan for each sport or activity, guidelines regarding prevention and reporting of abuse. It should be clear of the codes of practice, education and training opportunities to everyone that wants to know. Coaches need to find way to have practice and keep students "space". One of the best ways to allow the athlete to remain comfortable at the training environment is to use auditory cues and there will be no physical contact with the athletes.…

    • 359 Words
    • 2 Pages
    Satisfactory Essays
  • Good Essays

    Bullying

    • 1025 Words
    • 3 Pages

    As many of us develop, we may be able to identify those moments when some experience altered our development, or enabled us to view our environment in a different light. These experiences may have been critical in our lives, and have possibly shaped the type of adults we are now, and how we may be in the future. Personally, the experience that molded me into the adult that I am today was a negative experience. It was an experience that was spawned out of jealousy, hatred, rage, and sadness. As I reflect upon this life changing moment, I can’t help but feel as though I am transported back in time as that fearful, timid child dealing with the sorrows of others, and coping with the pain they bestowed upon me.…

    • 1025 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Good Essays

    As the year went on in middle school, I found that not everyone was inviting, and I quickly became a victim of bullying. Let’s call the bullies, bully A and B. Bully A was a girl a year above me, who also lived in the islands. She would harass me on the bus every day, to and from school. Our bus rides lasted about an hour and a half each way. I stood up to her, talking to the vice principals and my parent’s numerous times, but it never…

    • 646 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Good Essays

    Bullying

    • 2278 Words
    • 10 Pages

    Suicide is the third leading cause of death among students and young adults. Bullying causes over 4,000 deaths amongst students and young adults. Not everyone realizes how serious bullying is or how harmful it can be. More people need to be informed on what bullying is, how bullying differs as children grow up, the effects of bullying, how bullying has changed and how bullying can be prevented.…

    • 2278 Words
    • 10 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Good Essays

    Bullying

    • 423 Words
    • 1 Page

    Although some people tend to see bullying as any conflict or act of violence occurring…

    • 423 Words
    • 1 Page
    Good Essays
  • Satisfactory Essays

    Bullying

    • 612 Words
    • 3 Pages

    by Mr Bullyproof | Follow Him on Twitter Here What are your definitions of bullying? Are those definitions useful to you? One of the major problem schools have in dealing with bullying is in how they define it. It’s not just a paper exercise in thinking up labels, it makes a massive difference as to whether the organisation takes action as result of an incident or not. If you have a child who is being bullied at school, the school will only help them if the teachers believe that whatever has taken place counts as bullying. Will a teacher take action because one child sneers at another? It not only depends on whether a teacher believes the child but also whether the teacher considers sneering to be bullying. This is one of the reasons why schools are so bad at dealing with bullying. Currently, 50% of children have at least one experience of being bullied every school term yet 86% of teachers have not seen any bullying in the last 12 months. (Source: Respectme annual conference November 2009). Bullying is subjective. It means different things to different people. To become bullyproof you must accept this completely. You cannot allow other people to decide whether you are being bullied or not. You are the only person who gets to decide. About a third of all the enquiries I get include a phrase like this: “I’m not sure if this is considered as bullying but….” Many parents who call me are concerned that their situation might not be ‘serious enough’ for me to deal with. Perhaps I won’t consider what is happening as bullying. To me, if someone feels that they are being bullied then they are. My definition of bullying is worded to allow for the subjective nature of bullying. It is also a useful definition as it has a subtle empowering quality for my clients: “Bullying is a parasitical exchange, where one person gains a benefit from hurting another”…

    • 612 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Satisfactory Essays
  • Good Essays

    I am being bullied day and night, online and in person, verbally and mentally. There’s no one on my side, so it’s me against the world. They make up rumors, and I’m the one that’s in tears. They never think of anyone else except themselves. At first, I tried to fight back, but I soon found out that only makes it worse. Any word I say, gives them something new to dupe me. So, I decided to pretend I’m strong. And happy.…

    • 825 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Powerful Essays

    Bullying Paper

    • 1899 Words
    • 8 Pages

    Everyday in the U.S children are being bullied. 1 in 7 Students in Grades K-12 is either a bully or a victim of bullying. 56% of students have personally witnessed some type of bullying at school.15% of all school absenteeism is directly related to fears of being bullied at school. 71% of students report incidents of bullying as a problem at their school.1 out of 20 students has seen a student with a gun at school.282,000 students are physically attacked in secondary schools each month (MakeBeatsNotBeatdowns). Is that an eye opener? It can be about what we’re wearing, look like, size or religion or we could be attacked for no specific reason. Bullying is starting to become a growing issue all over the world. It is peaked at its worst in schools. Schools should start to create rules and regulations to prevent the situation from…

    • 1899 Words
    • 8 Pages
    Powerful Essays

Related Topics