The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao includes many instances of the novel’s protagonist, Oscar, falling in love with unattainable women, as well as other moments where Oscar feels pity for himself. Oscar spends most of the novel looking for a woman who will love him back, and his self-pity comes as a result of his failure to find a woman. Unlike many of his Dominican peers, who do well with the ladies, Oscar is not very handsome, nor is he able to talk to many girls. Oscar is also an avid fan of comics and science fiction, an interest that many people fin d unappealing. Oscar seems to be resisting the idea that Dominican men should be great womanizers who pride themselves on sleeping with a great number of women. Oscar seems to have gentlemanly intentions of having a meaningful relationship with a woman, unlike many other Dominican men. Oscar’s entire persona goes against his upbringing in a Dominican community in New Jersey, as he is the complete opposite of a stereotypical Dominican male.…
Yunior, specifically, realizes this attitude in Oscar, especially since he is the narrator and unsympathetically writes, “for four days Oscar resisted any attempt to pack him up in a plane, which says a lot about this fat kid’s fortitude,” (Diaz 303). Throughout the course of the novel, Yunior does not speak endearingly of Oscar, showing his lack of affection and immorality to him. The only reason Yunior tolerates Wao’s nerdiness is because of his love for Lola. Instead of letting Oscar live happily, Yunior flies down to the Dominican Republic with Lola to bring Oscar back to the states, telling him that he will get himself killed if he stays. Yunior writes, “Did I fly down? Of course I did. With Lola. Nothing brings a couple together quite like catastrophe” to which Oscar alludes to Shakespeare by saying, “Et tu, Yunior?” illustrating the ironic and hypocritical nature of Oscar’s life (Diaz 319). Wao refuses to leave Santo Domingo for the States because he loves Ybon too passionately to ever leave her again. If Yunior ever took the time to realize “that it was only because of [Ybon’s] love that [Oscar] had been able to do the thing that he had done” which was to still stand by Ybon after his life had been threatened,…
How are you my beloved wife? Did you hear from the morning news? Did you buy the newspaper this morning? You will be very proud of me once you see the headlines of today’s newspaper. Actually, I will inform you here to make sure you have gotten the news. Mr. McGregor is not here to bother you anymore, no more abusive man shouting at you or hurting you anymore. Can you guess what marvelous job I have done? Oh, my dear please continue to read this letter, please do not be mad at me for not being able to protect you before. I took a long time to plan this murder, and to make sure it will succeed in one try. You have to understand that I am always here for you my dear, for we have been married for 30 years, until that arrogant selfish man took you away from me, who completely ruined our happy marriage. Now, it is the time for him to pay back all the mistakes he have done. I am not a loser, for I will always get what I want at last.…
Back when I was in Kweilin, people did not think about the fancy cars that make the putt-putt-putt sound or the mortgage on their house. Their worst troubles were their children’s moans of hunger. Most people only dreamed of their next meal. Everybody had humility, all these Chinese people bound under the same problems, all of them having to work hard. Even though they were so different, they learned to cooperate and work together.…
The reality of life, love and nature are widely popular topics among humans. Everybody has different beliefs and ideas about it. Some people are more romantic, while others are a bit cynical. “The Passionate Shepherd to his Love” by Christopher Marlowe, “The Nymph’s Reply to the Shepherd” by Sir Walter Raleigh and “Raleigh Was Right” by William Carlos Williams are all poems that show different viewpoints on life, love and nature. Williams developed and transformed the central idea of these three poems by connecting the shepherd’s and the nymph’s contradicting beliefs with his own.…
I struggled to come up with a time in my life where I could not be myself. I have had the same job for fourteen years, have been with the same person for more than fourteen years, and have had my friends for longer still. Trying to find a time that I can distinctly remember not being myself I have to go back a long time, probably around eighteen years. The more I thought about it, the more I could only recall freshmen year in high school as being a time where I was living two lives. I attended a high school that not one single person I knew attended, I was on my own. Many of my friends attended the same two high schools and enjoyed the luxury of having something in common with each other. My high school was a specialty school that I choose to attend but none of my friends were able to. The school having different concentrations in different arts almost built a segregated culture. This major spent most of their time away from another major and so on. This built up temporary walls that eventually would come down. However, I think this helped me feel an outsider.…
Ever since I was 5 years old, I have always been interested in two careers and that I’ve wanted to pursue. The first career I wanted to do is nursing because since I was young my parents made me interested in the medical field; I wanted to do nursing because I like helping people who are injured. People who are nurses in my family are my mom and dad; I like this career maybe because helping people is in my blood, my mom is the one who mostly inspired me in doing nursing. The only reason why I and my brother and sister is having a good life is because of my mom, my family we use to live in a life where life is harsh and barely food on the table. She’s the one who motivated me more to become a nurse because of how she helps my family, the reason why is because she got a job offer to be an RN in the U.S.…
I use to always sit and wonder if people realized how many teens were victims of dating violence. Looking around public places with fear in my eyes, I could see people don’t see the abuse that goes on in some relationships. I, on the other hand, can see abusive relationships almost everywhere and almost everyday. I never noticed them until I was part of one. Being part of an abusive relationship changed my life and me as a person.…
It was the most auspicious and wonderful day of my life. The appointed time for solemnizing the marriage had come. I was sitting on the verandah surrounded by hundreds of young girls and women. They were all waiting for the propitious news to be announced. The bridegroom, Nadim with his marriage party had reached to my place. They were stayed at a near by Madrasa. That religious institution was named after my late grandfather and founded by my family members.…
Everything has a history. Everyone has their own endeavor. It depends on how they take it, how they overcome each situation and how they will face each circumstance that made their endeavor meaningful.…
In the fall of 2011, I moved to Buffalo, New York and took two years to get here. I do not regret anything. I arrived knowing nothing and speaking English was not the same as when I was twelve when I was studying in Tampa, FL. Some people may think it’s funny that I came here not knowing the woman I was to live with. My mother was happy but scared at the same time that I was going to a city that I did not know and almost alone, without close relatives or even friends. But one that does not risk does not succeed.…
Sometimes in your life, some events happen that becomes an unforgettable memory for you and which teaches you such lesson that becomes one of the basic guideline in your life. The event that I experienced which taught me a valuable lesson happened when I accompany my grandmother went to hospital to operate her eye.…
I’m lying in bed thinking how much I sometimes hate my longtime friends Brandon and Steve. I hate them because it’s seven o’clock in the morning on a Saturday, my cell phone is ringing, and it’s them calling, and no one should ever call me at seven A.M. I push a button on my phone, sending them to the deepest darkest bowels of the Sprint voicemail system. My cold, cruel voicemail greeting. Monotone and unhappy, it’s definitely not an inviting voice to hear when you’re trying to get a hold of someone. I guess that was on purpose, because if I never get another voicemail message for the rest of my life, I’ll die a happy man.…
Everybody in the world is pass from different and various events during his/her lives. I also observed and pass through the many events from my childhood up to present now. As I grow up I perceives knowledge form the education, nature, etc. He enjoys events or occasion, makes friends, etc. Friends are very important in ones life because friends are responsible to give shapes of ones life.…
How often do we make a wish and really believe that the wish will come true? As adults we are more grounded in reality and we do not expect anything to appear from nowhere, but we have to actually make it happen for ourselves if we want it. For children, however, dreams and wishes are an active part of their fantasies, because they are innocent, naive, and life is easy when you are little. But sometimes, childhood can be difficult, when children become sick. In these cases, I think, that having a dream is even more important, because it makes life more colorful, gives hope and motivates them to overcome their illness.…