Be Bold When You Lose and Be Calm When You Win

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BE BOLD WHEN YOU LOSE AND BE CALM WHEN YOU WIN
‘Successful people believe that failure is nothing but a feedback mechanism.’ MASTER OF CEREMONIES, FELLOW YOUTHLEADERS, ESTEEMED TOASTMASTERS ,LADIES AND GENTLEMEN A VERY WARM GOOD EVENING TO ONE AND ALL. LIFE IS FULL OF CHALLENGES WHICH INCLUDE SUCCESS AS WELL AS FAILURES,BUT VERY FEWW PEOPLE ARE SUCCESSFUL IN EVERYTHING THEY ATTEMPT. BUT ON THE OTHER SIDE, MOST OF THE PEOPLE HAVE TO FACE FAILURES IN THEIR LIFE’S BEFORE THEY REALLY ACHIEVE THE SUCCESSIVE TOP. WHEN PEOPLE FAIL THEY MOSTLY REACT IN THREE WAYS :

1. THEY GIVE UP:
IT IS THE EASIEST THING TO DO.WHAT MANY PEOPLE DO WHEN THEY FACE CHALLENGES AND OBSTACLE IN THEIR LIFE IS TO START MAKING EXCUSES, BLAMING CIRCUMSTANCES, AND OTHER PEOPLE FOR THE FAILURE.UP WITH JUSTIFICATIONS TO WHY THEY FAILED IS EASY, AND THAT IS WHY MOST PEOPLE CHOOSE THIS REACTION.

2. THEY PERSIST:
WHEN THE GOING GETS TOUGH, WE MUST PERSIST, AND KEEP IT GOING, AND NEVER EVER GIVE UP.THE PROBLEM WITH REACTION TO FAILURE IS THAT YOU CAN PUT IN A HUGE AMOUNT OF ENERGY AND EFFORT BUT IF YOU ARE DOING WRONG THINGS, YOUR RESULTS ARE NOT GOING TO CHANGE.ALBERT EINSTEN ONCE SAID,’’THE DEFINITON OF INSANTY IS NOTHING BUT DOING THE SAME THING OVER AND OVER AND EXPECTING A DIFFERENT RESULT.’’

3. THEY RE-STRATEGIZE:
IF YOU TRY SDOMETHING AND IT DOESN’T WORK,LEARN FROM IT AND THEN DO YOU TRY AGAIN.YOU MUST BE ABLE TO NOT ONLY TAKE ACTION BUT ALSO FIGURE OUT WHAT IS WORKING AND WHAT IS NOT.EACH TIME YOU FAIL,YOU WILL GAIN EXPERIENCE AND THE MORE EXPERIENCE YOU GAIN, THE BETTER YOU STRATEGISE FOR THE NEXT MOVE AND INCREASE YOUR CHANCE OF SUCCESS. THIS IS THE SUREST WAY TO ACHIEVE ANY GOAL YOU HAVE SET FOR YOURSELF.

NOW LET ME GIVE YOU SOME EXAMPLES :-

WHEEL HAS NOT COME INTO USE BY HUMANKIND OVERNIGHT RATHER THE REPEATED ATTEMPTS OF THE EARLY MAN HA LED THE WHEEL TO HAVE A SUCCESSFUL BEGINING.

ABRAHAM LINCOLN WAS A FAILURE IN EDUCATION AS WELL AS IN POLITICS, BUT HE TOOK...
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