Understanding the benefits of each style according to the research available is a necessary. Authoritarian parenting styles are often strict with …show more content…
They are both demanding and responsive. “They exert control by setting rules, but, especially with older children they encourage open discussion [communicate well and are attentive] and allow exceptions [flexible]” (Myers & Dewall, 2015, p. 202). Authoritative parents are warm and affectionate in their relationship with their children. Their discipline is multifaceted, adapting their discipline to fit each situation and each child. The Bible has parenting styles also and as Christians we should examine it as our authoritative source. Although what psychology has to offer should not be dismissed or neglected but integrated with a proper biblical …show more content…
We are all human and as humans, we will inevitably parenting decision that we will later regret. We will also make decisions that we will come to be proud of and that will influence our children and their children for generations. There are many styles of parenting and we must choose among them. The one we chose should reflect a biblical perspective of parenting and be reflective of how God our Father parents and relates to us. With the knowledge, grace, mercy and understanding that the one and only God has adopted us sinners through the death of His only son to be his eternal heirs. Romans 8:15-17 (NIV) says, “The Spirit you received does not make you slaves, so that you live in fear again; rather, the Spirit you received brought about your adoption to sonship. And by him we cry, “Abba, Father.” The Spirit himself testifies with our spirit that we are God’s children. Now if we are children, then we are heirs—heirs of God and co-heirs with Christ, if indeed we share in his sufferings in order that we may also share in his