Arrenged Somali Wedding

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SPEECH TO INFORM

Organizational Method : Topical Topic : “Arranged Marriage: Somaliland Marriage (Hargeisa)

General Purpose : To Inform

Specific Purpose : To Inform my audience about the Arranged Somali Marriage.
Central Idea : the three Amazing interesting in Somali Marriage are Couple’s may engage without seeing each other, Before she is Born by making arrangement with her and its very useful in Somali traditional marriage INRTRODUCTION:

I. Have you ever heard about arranged marriage?
A. What if I told you, it can be possible to get married with out seeing your Bride or Groom? II. Where a marriage is arranged without the consent of the couple. Marriage in Somali culture has always been a Arrangement of society. It has signified not only a union of two young people but also of two families and most of the time, III. This topic “Arranged Marriage” I am Khalid. I am speaking is one of the rare non happen of the world can be first time you heard about it. (Transition: Lets figure out by looking at the Somali arranged Marriage.) BODY.

I. SOMALI marriage laws are practically Muslim marriage laws. A. A man may have four wives, with all the trouble he deserves in consequence thrown in. 1. According to H. RAYN E. 920. Freelance, published article by non Muslim observer. Men may become engaged to a girl before she is born by making an arrangement with her “prospective "-for want of a better word-parents. 2. The engagement in any case is always arranged between the girl's parents or guardians, and is clinched by a small present from the man to them as a token of finality. This token, which may consist of a horse or even any small personal possession of the man's, once accepted makes the engagement binding for all time. 3. If broken by either party something like a breach of promise case is the result. Any time before the marriage, property (generally in the shape of stock) is paid by the suitor to the parents as the purchase price of his bride. B. The value of this property varies among different tribes and for different women. 1. If before marriage a girl dies, her relations must return the purchase price paid, which is called yarad. Should the man die his next of brother may marry the girl on making a small further payment. 2. Should she refuse this alliance another must be found to take her place, or the yarad be returned to the deceased's estate. (Transition: it’s Common like Muslim Marriage to use as this but still we are looking at arranged marriage) II. If everything is arranged satisfactorily and the marriage be consummated, a substantial proportion (known as dibad) of the yarad is returned to the man by his wife's people. A. According to hmed smtr, 2009, intrntionl somli studies , The marriage is generally celebrated by a Kathi or Sheikh, and at the ceremony the amount of dowry-or mehr, as it is called here-to be settled on the wife by her husband is recorded. 1. The mehr may consist of anything-generally stock-and need not be paid at the time, but it is a very important matter for the woman that it be clearly defined. 2. Should she be divorced her husband must hand to her the mehr agreed on at the marriage ceremony. Should he die she has first claim on his estate for her settlement, which is quite apart from any subsequent share of the estate she is entitled to as deceased's wife. 3. However, should she refuse to marry her deceased husband's next of kin or a man of his tribe chosen by his people, she forfeits all rights to both her mehr and share of the estate. This is the basis of...
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