Arranged Marriages

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Arranged Marriages
“Marriages are made in heaven and consummated on earth.” This phrase is on eighty percent of wedding cards invitation, but never on a divorce documents. Have you ever thought why? People from different cultures have their own perspective. Some believe that, arranged marriages last longer than love marriages, as the elder members of the family choose their spouses, who are experienced. The traditions of arranged marriage have been continued for a long time in the family history as their parents have gone through the same when they got married. While others believe that an arrange marriage is not just an association of two people but two families. The tradition of arranged marriages is practiced dominantly in India and other Indian subcontinents. In Rig Vedic Hindus, marriages are a union, in which a woman is half of his man and a man is incomplete without her. The goal of marriage in Hinduism is to foster, not self‑interest, but self‑restraint and love for the entire family, which keeps the family united and prevents its breakdown. Even in educated class, intermixing between two sexes is a taboo. Hence, most marriages are arranged by parents or relatives. (Indian Journal of Psychiatry, pg 2.) Arranged marriages have very low divorce rate. The lower rate of divorced in an arranged marriage gives parents a sense of security for their children which is one of the reasons the parents enforces them to marry someone they choose. It is a belief and proved study that arranged marriages are the most successful and lasting relationship. In eastern culture and most rural parts of the world, arranged marriages are put together by word of mouth. Even before the parents believe that, their children are in the right age to get married, the extended family members or the people of the society start looking for a match. This tradition has been continued for years. The aunts in the family play a major role in match making. The arrange marriage tradition has...
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