Arranged Marriage

In Agreeance with Arranged Marriages Arranging a Marriage in India gives us an insight on how delicate and important it is when in the process of such tradition. Now when reading the story written by Serena Nanda. We may have a perspective that has not been deterred until after. Such as I have been. I came in mind, assuming,"This will be a story of a beautiful young woman and a more than a privileged man would refuse to be united in marriage. No such thing occurred. Arranging a marriage is a tradition and is well awaited for. Many great points are made. One good point is when asked," With you, people you know the boy so well before you marry where will be the fun to get married?"(Nanda 139). She was not angry that such a decision was taken away from her. She did not think that way in the slightest. Sita is welcomed to the idea. Which threw Nanda and myself off momentarily. "Arranging a Marriage In India", has shed a
The parents will look at the personality of the individual, what caste they came from if the suitor will be able to provide for himself and their daughter well. They will even consider his appearance and his profession. The parents will go to extreme measures when searching a suitable suitor. Even if that meant searching for two years. As did Nanda's friend in India. All in all, I support arranged marriages. What I thought was taken away (their own decision) was not. Supporting arranged marriages not only has its own benefits . Such as wedding tab would already be picked up. It also it is a decision to allow the parents to participate in this religious/ tradition affair. Serena Nanda gives us another perspective that she herself did not have until after. Arranged marriages are not that bad after her. Their decision was not taken away from them but it was wanted. Their decision became a family decision. Which I