Preview

Analysis Of Marriage: A Joyful Union Of Opposites

Powerful Essays
Open Document
Open Document
11212 Words
Grammar
Grammar
Plagiarism
Plagiarism
Writing
Writing
Score
Score
Analysis Of Marriage: A Joyful Union Of Opposites
DIFFERENT BY DESIGN

Marriage: A Joyful Union of Opposites

O.M EFUEYE

CONTENTS
INTRODUCTION
CHAPTER 1: HE WHICH MADE THEM AT THE BEGINNING........
CHAPTER 2: ROLES DETERMINE RELATIONSHIPS
CHAPTER 3: DECISIONS, DECISIONS!
CHAPTER 4: COMMUNICATION IS KEY
CHAPTER 5: LEARNING TO FIGHT PROPERLY
CHAPTER 6: PARENTS: IN-LAWS & OUTLAWS
CHAPTER 7: I CAN’T LIVE WITHOUT YOU
CHAPTER 8: DIFFERENT BY DESIGN
CHAPTER 9: SEX IS GOOD, SEX IS GODLY
CHAPTER 10: FATAL ATTRACTIONS AND DISASTROUS DISTRACTIONS
CHAPTER 11: RAISING GODLY CHILDREN
CHAPTER 12: TILL DEATH US DO PART!

INTRODUCTION

“I curse the day I met you”. Those words were spat out with venom and frustration. They hit their intended target - my heart. The full
…show more content…
To cohabit is defined by Dictionary.com as “to live together, especially as husband and wife, without being married.” Cohabitation in Great Britain, as prevalent as it is, does not qualify to be the functional equivalent of, or indeed a lasting alternative to marriage. Rather, it more often functions as a prelude to marriage or a trial marriage. CIVITAS the institution for the Study of Civil Society, an independent social policy think tank, has discovered in its research that the average length of a cohabiting union is two years before either converting to marriage or dissolving. There are many negative effects to cohabitation on cohabiting parents and their children, when compared to married couples and their offspring. Married couples and their children enjoy on the whole more qualitative economic circumstances, superior emotional well-being and better physical and mental health. To exemplify typical attitudes in cohabitation, a study on Sexual Behaviour in Britain (Welling K, Field J, Johnson A.M, Wandsworth J, Sexual Behaviour in Britain London: Penguin 1994 pg 363) discovered that cohabiting men are less likely than married men to say they think that sexual fidelity within a partnership is important. To this end, cohabiting men actually engage in slightly higher rates of unsafe sex (having multiple partners and failing to use a condom) than single men, and …show more content…
Man is a singular entity comprising three different distinct parts - spirit, soul and body. So the triune nature of man reflects the triune nature of God. The second indication is the fact that man was created male and female. God has both male and female characteristics. While He is primarily referred to as Father, it is clear that He also has maternal instincts and qualities as evidenced by His name El-Shaddai which literally translated means the multi-breasted one! Jesus also talks about wanting to gather Jerusalem’s children together as a ‘mother’ hen gathers her chicks under her wings. (Matthew 23:37; Luke

You May Also Find These Documents Helpful

  • Good Essays

    In order to assess reasons for the changes in the patterns of marriage and cohabitation; it is necessary to first establish the term marriage and cohabitation. Marriage is traditionally conceived to be a legally recognized relationship, between two consenting adults, that carries certain rights and obligations. Cohabitation is an arrangement whereby couples who are not legally married live together in partnership within the common law. Cohabitation has become so widespread that the term itself is now rarely used. I will now critically examine the changes in the patterns of marriage and cohabitation in the last 40 years or so.…

    • 929 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Satisfactory Essays

    The Next Part is a short documentary film directed, produced, filmed, and edited by Erin Sanger. It was a winner at five film festivals, and was an official selection at three. The film is about a man who lost his legs in an explosion in Iraq, as well as his and his wife's struggle with conceiving a child after the accident.…

    • 438 Words
    • 2 Pages
    Satisfactory Essays
  • Good Essays

    Over the last 40 years marriage rates have declined significantly while the number of couple’s cohabitating has risen rapidly. This is due to our changing society where equality, laws, social acceptance and religions have all contributed into the way we view marriage and relationships. In the 1970’s there were around 400,000 first marriages whereas, in 2011, there were 248,000. The average ages of people getting married have also increased from 25 for men and 23 for women in 1961 to 36 for men and 33 for women in 2011. Cohabitation is a big factor in the decreasing number of marriages with people using it as either an alternative to marriage entirely, or a ‘trial marriage’ which just delays the time of a couple’s marriage.…

    • 918 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Good Essays

    To begin, I must admit that I approached David Blankenhorn's book The Future of Marriage with some trepidation, as I know that he is against extending marriage to same-sex couples. After reading the book, however, I have to give him credit for approaching the issue with more respect than most who believe in preserving “family values.” He doesn't fall into the easy and usual trap of moralizing about homosexuality being "wrong," "perverted," or "unnatural." In fact, he goes as far as saying "homosexual behavior is an important and normal (expected) occurrence in human societies" (Blankenhorn 115) and "[w]e as a society can and should accept the dignity of homosexual love and the equal worth of gay and lesbian persons" (179). Such acknowledgments do a lot to encourage dialogue out of mutual respect; something that many on his side would do better to remember.…

    • 2069 Words
    • 9 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Better Essays

    Neil does bring in some premises that are relevant to that. Neil brings up some states showing that children born to cohabiting parents experience separation of their parents before the age of “16” at “75%” compared to those married at around “one third” . If it was demonstrated that a separation of parents lead to a negative impacts in a child’s life and behavior then the premise might stand. Unfortunately since so few cohabiting couples decide to have children that the net parent separation rate bellow 16% is probably higher for married couples. Neil states that women are more likely to face “physical and sexual abuse” when living in cohabitation compared to a marriage. Neil fails to bring any stats or proof to that claim or anything thing showing that cohabitation is the cause and not just in correlation. An argument is made that relationships will not be as good as married relationships because the partners will not be “genuine and authentic” due to the thinking that “their partner may bolt at the first sign of trouble.” One could rebut that be not having this security would make both partners put more effort into maintaining the relationship due to the fact that they know their partner can leave much more easily. I find it hard to believe that married people are “emotionally, physically, financially, and vocationally” better off because the apparent studies are not listed and we are not informed in what way those statistics were…

    • 1030 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Better Essays
  • Good Essays

    Over the past forty years marriage, divorce and cohabitation rates have fluctuated significantly. For example, the number of divorces has increased from 27,000 in 1961 to 153,000 by 2006, whilst the Telegraph newspaper reported that ‘one in six people are cohabiting as marriage rates decline’. Why is this? There are multiple reasons for these varying statistics.…

    • 887 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Satisfactory Essays

    Identify and explain two reasons for the increase in cohabitation in the contemporary UK (17)…

    • 606 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Satisfactory Essays
  • Satisfactory Essays

    Mr Josh Gallagher

    • 823 Words
    • 4 Pages

    One of the many reasons for the changes in the patterns of marriage and cohabitation is the changing social attitudes, over the last 40 years social attitudes towards marriage and cohabitation have changed dramatically which has had a massive effect on how marriage and cohabitation is looked at by people in today’s society, because of this change in social attitudes marriage isn’t looked at as compulsory as it was 40 years ago as attitudes have changed which has led to the increase in cohabitation and also it becoming acceptable. There has been a recent data collection which shows how marriage has dropped due to the changes in social attitudes; the number of marriages taking place in England and Wales per year has been in decline since the early 70s, decreasing from 404,734 in 1971 to just 232,443 in 2009. There has been a significant trend to where there are more cohabiting couples, the number of opposite sex cohabiting couples has increased, from 1.5 million in 1996 to 2.9 million in 2012. The number of dependent children living in these opposite sex cohabiting couple families also increased, doubling from 0.9 million to 1.8 million in the same period. This shows how social attitudes has effected the changes in the patterns of marriage and cohabitation, this is shown…

    • 823 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Satisfactory Essays
  • Good Essays

    An Ideal Husband Analysis

    • 1002 Words
    • 5 Pages

    Double standards are clearly represented in the novel by Oscar Wilde, An Ideal Husband, that talks about the position of women in the society. In this play, women are attributed to several things, for instance, an idea that women stand for the irrational, women have a wonderful natural feeling concerning a number of things. They are able to discover everything except the most obvious things in society. In addition to these, the play as well indicates that the life of a man is more important and valuable as compared to a woman’s life. Wilde’s An Ideal Husband highlights the role of women in society in the 19th century in England.…

    • 1002 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Good Essays

    Cohabitation is an arrangement where two people who are not married live together in an intimate relationship, usually an emotionally and/or sexually intimate one, on a long term or permanent one. Before 1970, cohabitation was illegal in certain countries, like America. But due to a change in the law, Cohbitation is now a common way of living, all over the world. As well as sex/birth outside of marriage, leaving at least 50% to 60% of couples cohabitating, this started in the late 1990s. This lead to the decline of traditional nuclear families as people want to live in companionship because nearly half the amount of marriages now end in divorce, as well as cohabitating being cheaper, easier and less hassle. The new right see the decline in the traditional nuclear family and increase on family diversity as negative trends on modern society. From the new right perspective, these changes are the cause of many social problems in Britain today.…

    • 816 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Better Essays

    Marriage and Individuals

    • 1257 Words
    • 6 Pages

    “No matter what language people speak-from Arabic to Yiddish, from Chinook to Chinese-marriage is what we use to describe a specific relationship of love and dedication to another person” (Wolfson 90). In the essay “What Is Marriage” by Evan Wolfson, he argues that marriage is a very important custom to our society from both social and spiritual aspects of life. Wolfson believes that as long as two people are in love whether if it is same-sex or opposite sex, couples have the right to be married. The government should permit and support same-sex couples to be married and become financially and socially stable. Likewise, Author Andrew Sullivan of “My Big Fat Straight Wedding” writes about his perspectives that everyone should acknowledge and treat the gay and lesbian people with respect as a human being.…

    • 1257 Words
    • 6 Pages
    Better Essays
  • Good Essays

    As society’s view of a ‘conventional family’ has changed over the last 40 years, the variety of acceptable norms has increased drastically. In the past, an unmarried woman or spinster would be looked down on in society ,as it was a norm that a woman should be married with children. If they didn’t they would be judged as there was a problem with them so that they couldn’t have kids or a husband. The average age for a women first getting married in 1961 was 23.1 this has risen to 30 by June 2009. This shows that women are now waiting longer for their first marriage. This is down to many different reasons. Single women aren’t looked down on by the majority of people today, they are viewed as strong, independent women. This means that there is next to no pressure for women to get married quickly. This has resulted in the rise in cohabitation. Marriage is no longer seen as the definition of a proper relationship by society. 40 years ago, living together outside of marriage was a rarity; however cohabitation can now be seen as a socially acceptable alternative to marriage. This is partly due to the changing attitudes to sexual relationships mean that sex…

    • 1889 Words
    • 8 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Good Essays

    It is in fact 50% of people in the UK who cohabit and the number of opposite sex cohabiting couple families has increased significantly, from 1.5 million in 1996 to 2.9 million in 2012. However, there are other types of families: extended family, unconventional families; single parent families, homosexual families and reconstituted families; step families. Single parent families and step families usually occur after ‘irretrievable breakdown’ of marriage, resulting in divorce. However, it could be that a martial partner or partner has died or left unexpectedly, and after this a new intimate relationship is formed and the couple is likely to procreate.…

    • 3007 Words
    • 13 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Good Essays

    One of the most dramatic trends of recent years has been the tremendous increase in male-female couples who choose to live together without marrying, a practice called cohabitation. According to the 2000 Census, there are eleven million unmarried people living with an unmarried partner in the United States today, and this number has grown 72% in the last decade alone. While many people like David Popenoe, a Professor of Sociology, on his essay Sociological Reasons Not to Live Together suggests that living together is not a good way to prepare for marriage or to avoid divorce. There is another point of view like an organization called The Alternatives to Marriage Project (AtMP) believes that unmarried relationships should deserve validation and support.…

    • 942 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Better Essays

    Through out life, we cross paths with thousands of people and many of these paths lead to different types of relationships. Some may be undeveloped, inspiring, intimate, or some relationships may not even last. Therefore, the relationships we have always have society thinking, what is a close relationship? And, what is it that makes our associations close and strong? Interpersonal relationships are formed in the context of social, cultural and other influences. Some of the universal traits that form in close relationships include; love, friendship, compatibility, trust, acceptance, communication, openness, respect, understanding and commitment. From the relationships that are growing in today’s generation with social media, location, and even early development, these universal traits are changing, and each relationship will always have its differences and each will have its strengths in creating close relationships. Through my personal experiences, I have been able to experience different relationships with a lot of people. Some of them are still in my life today, various relationships may not be as strong, and others are still around, but the ones that I consider close are with the people who are committed to me and who share intimacy, experiences, trust and values. Everybody goes through different trials and errors when finding a close, healthy relationship and this is why there are many different views on what is good and what is bad in a relationships. But society, textbooks, the media, and culture have their own opinions on what a close relationship is and what it involves.…

    • 1807 Words
    • 8 Pages
    Better Essays