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Analysis Of Different Ways Of Being By Alan Balter
Different Ways of Being is a fictional story written by Alan Balter, this book introduces three different families and their different perspectives and involvement on the Deaf community. Over time each family grows closer and supports one another in the best and worst of times eventually becoming one big happy family. The first family consists of Deaf parents Wila and Robert who fall deep in love when they are children and eventually get married and have a Deaf son, Seth. He attended the same school that his parents did. There he met his best friend Jacob who was there for it all in fact they grew up together, worked together over the summer, roomed together in college at Gallaudet University, Jacob was even there when Seth got shot and his life was changed forever. The next family consists of two hearing orphan children Rachel and Angelo that fell in love and got married. …show more content…
Mario was a restless baby, one night during one of his crying marathons Robert got frustrated and shook baby Mario to make him stop crying which damaged Marios brian. As a child Mario fell very far behind in school and was put into isolated classes. He eventually dropped out of school, joined a gang, and left his home to live in the gang house. The third family consists of hearing parents Sam a very successful european auner and his wife Miriam as well as their son Anthony, and daughter Sara. Anthony is hearing and he was a very successful athlete until during one football game he got hit and became paralyzed from the waist down. Sara was Deaf her Uncle was also Deaf due to a illness as an infant because of this Miriam was already fluent in ASL and had encouraged the immediate and extended family to learn ASL as well so they can communicate with

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