What Family Family Means to Me
Abstract
Family is important as it is also important to have a happy family. We might think at times what makes a happy family? Is there such a thing as a happy family? Or is it possible to have a happy family. Having a happy family as we all might know is not an easy task to do, but it is neither impossible. What we can do is search for element to guide us through a happy family. I understand that no one is perfect therefore; there is no perfect happy family. We will learn that a happy family is unique and different from other happy families since we are all different human beings.
What Makes Up a Happy Family Is There Such A Thing?
“All happy families are alike; each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.” (Sokolik, 2010) There is a question that at some point in life a family member may ask themselves is there such a thing as a happy family, or what the elements are in order to have a happy family. Every family is happy in a unique way, there is no such a thing to be a one hundred percent happy family with no problems what so ever. Every family has problems whether they are marriage problems or problems with their children. They also share sadness, happiness, love, freedom and many more emotions at the same time; otherwise it would not be a happy family.
“In happy families, family comes before friends. The camp counselor understands something that parents don’t and that is that caring for kids also has to be fun. Give rules, but understand that kids need fun, too. When kids get bored and listless, they start looking for excitement out of the home and that is when friends become more important. Friendship is important but subordinate to family.” (Mann, 2012) Therefore we should not let our children become bored of us and look for their friends. We must save the future conflicts and try to have the most possible fun with our children so they don’t get bored of us and enjoy being with us their parents, their family.
References
Agnes, M. (2003).
Family is important as it is also important to have a happy family. We might think at times what makes a happy family? Is there such a thing as a happy family? Or is it possible to have a happy family. Having a happy family as we all might know is not an easy task to do, but it is neither impossible. What we can do is search for element to guide us through a happy family. I understand that no one is perfect therefore; there is no perfect happy family. We will learn that a happy family is unique and different from other happy families since we are all different human beings.
What Makes Up a Happy Family Is There Such A Thing?
“All happy families are alike; each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.” (Sokolik, 2010) There is a question that at some point in life a family member may ask themselves is there such a thing as a happy family, or what the elements are in order to have a happy family. Every family is happy in a unique way, there is no such a thing to be a one hundred percent happy family with no problems what so ever. Every family has problems whether they are marriage problems or problems with their children. They also share sadness, happiness, love, freedom and many more emotions at the same time; otherwise it would not be a happy family.
“In happy families, family comes before friends. The camp counselor understands something that parents don’t and that is that caring for kids also has to be fun. Give rules, but understand that kids need fun, too. When kids get bored and listless, they start looking for excitement out of the home and that is when friends become more important. Friendship is important but subordinate to family.” (Mann, 2012) Therefore we should not let our children become bored of us and look for their friends. We must save the future conflicts and try to have the most possible fun with our children so they don’t get bored of us and enjoy being with us their parents, their family.
References
Agnes, M. (2003).
References: Agnes, M. (2003). Webster 's New World Dictionary. New York : Pocket Books. Mann, D. (2012). Web MD. Retrieved April 2012, from WebMD, LLC: http://www.webmd.com/parenting/features/15-secrets-to-have-a-happy-family Sokolik, M. K. (2010). Sound Ideas. New York: McGraw-Hill.