When I was around the age to start talking about sexual activities, it was a funny and weird subject to speak on. In reality, it is a touchy topic to talk about with teens. You feel that you already know or you don’t need to know because you are not having sex. Oh! How we were wrong. My mom told me about birth control, condoms, and abstinence. At first I didn’t know exactly what abstinence was but I figured out that it meant wait to have sex when you’re ready. My mom told me to wait until I get married, never get pressured to do anything. I never learned a lot of facts at school because we didn’t have sex education. Sex education should be in all middle and high schools. So many kids like I did didn’t know about safe sex and the cause and effects on what will happen. Not only females but more males have no idea on what to expect as well. Recent discussions has showed that if you tell kids to stay abstinent not only will they go out and have sex anyway but cause a lot of problems such as, teen pregnancy, more infections spreading, and emotional distress.…
Comprehensive Sexual Education What has happened to today’s society that we are opposed to condoms because they might entice sex? When has allowing our youth to practice unsafe sex over safe sex been okay? We often think because we supply kids with condoms, birth control, and talks, that we are giving them permission to have sex, when in fact we are merely trying to protect them from STDs and pregnancy. We do not need to scare kids, but we do need to provide them with information about safe sex practices and what can happen if they do plan to explore their sexual urge. Facts are the most important thing we can offer those select few of youth who wish to engage in sex. Since when has providing information been a bad thing? Shouldn’t the youth know what they are doing and what can happen before they do it? Most schools and education environments that do encourage any sort of sexual education, teach kids to “just say no”. The one main problem with this “abstinence only” education is that it denies those who do say “yes” information, instead of providing other acceptable options other than abstinence. Throughout time, ratings have shown that teaching the abstinence only education doesn’t affect the rates at which teenagers decide to have sex. Though comprehensive sex education doesn’t stop kids from having sex, it does however teach them how to participate in safe sex. Teenagers in today’s society are not stupid. When they are told by teachers that abstinence is the only way that they will not get a STD, they know they are being lied to or misled. Giving teenagers’ information about the risks of different types of sexual behavior can help them make informed decisions about sex. The most effective programs are not the ones that try to divert teens from sex completely but rather the ones that try to steer teens away from dangerous sexual behaviors. Most teens who do not have the correct information on risky sexual behaviors veer away from vaginal intercourse, and…
According to the Center for Disease Control and Prevention, the average teenager engages in sexual intercourse by the age of seventeen, but do not marry until the mid-twenties (citation). This means that young adults are at an increased risk for unintended pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections for nearly ten years or longer. The numbers of students engaging in sexual activity of ages thirteen to twenty-four continues to grow each year, as does the number of unplanned pregnancies and HIV infections due to not being fully educated about the risks. Today, the duty of educating students and teenagers about sexual intercourse and the risks involved is left to the government and public school system. Abstinence education programs in public…
Teens did not know their own bodies. There were little factual resources that teenagers can depend. Few choices left for them, teenagers were guided along high risk actions. Abstinence was the approved option by parents, as it teaches teens to not be sexually active but not on protection or STDS. Another path is exploration on their own means. Exploration was dangerous, because teenagers were unaware of the consequences. Both options plunged teens’ health into a abyss. Then around 1980s, media started to reach towards the topic of sexual activity in teenagers. Many teen movies brushed against the topic about sexual activity and gave more positive responses than usual. Now, there is a rapid increase in sexual activity amongst teens. Due to this rise of sexually active teens, sexual health programs in high schools need to be updated to accommodate this change. High schools need to avoid only abstinence learning and implemented new programs for…
Society’s attitude towards sexual behavior is more tolerant and permissive now than ever before. Entertainment directed at a teen audience is much more sexually explicit allowing teens to believe that sexual activity is something common that everyone in society does. The popular series “Twilight” is a perfect example because although the book is meant for a teen audience, it contains a sexual nature. Another example would be the TV show, “16 and Pregnant” which glamourizes the issue of teen pregnancy. These new social norms make teenagers feel that it is accepted behavior to become sexually active at a…
First, opening up to, parents about sex isn’t the easiest thing to do especially if the person is considered underage. Teenage girls do not talk about sex and birth control with their parents because they are worried about the reaction they may receive. Lack of communication between parents and children about contraception is a factor that contributes to teen pregnancy and high rates of STI’s within teenagers. This happens because teen will then not have the accurate information they need about sex and how contraceptives are important As much as teens need information and facts about birth control, they mostly need an understanding of what their parents’ thoughts are about sexuality. Some parents wait until their child asks questions about sex this method may or may not be helpful based upon how comfortable the child is to bring up the topic.…
The following review is based on the book Your kids at risk: How teen sex threatens our sons and daughters (2007). The book is a comprehensive text regarding the effects of sexual promiscuity amongst today’s teens, the signs in which to look for, and ways in which to prevent the potentially detrimental outcomes. The book discusses a variety of issues threatening our teens today in the form of STDs (sexually transmitted diseases) and what Dr. Meeker describes as “emotional STDs”, which she defines as depression, ultimately resulting from the complications associated with teen sex. Dr. Meeker offers a great amount of detailed information regarding STDs, both the curable as well as the incurable that are plaguing many teens todays. Additionally, she provides a range of information, from birth control to media influence to emotional health and offers her point of view of not only a pediatrician’s perspective, but as a mother…
The use condom minimizes the exchange of body fluids, especially semen, vaginal secretions, and blood, while you still enjoy intercourse.…
Safe sex is sexual activity engaged in by people who have taken precautions to protect themselves against sexually transmitted diseases STDs such as AIDS. It is also referred to as safer sex or protected sex, while unsafe or unprotected sex is sexual activity engaged in without precautions. Some sources prefer the term safer sex to more precisely reflect the fact that these practices reduce, but do not completely eliminate, the risk of disease transmission. Recent years, the term "sexually transmitted infections" STIs has been preferred over "STDs", as it has a broader range of meaning; a person may be infected, and may potentially infect others, without showing signs of disease.…
From the age kids could start asking ‘where do babies come from’ adults have shied away from revealing the truth. However, the same thing has happened in the public school systems and homes of America, there is a lack of correct and unbiased sexual education. In middle schools, high schools, and at home the real truth of sexual education has been lacking, only 22 states require public schools to teach sexual education and only 19 states that provide sexual education must be medically accurate. The fact of the matter is that americans have a tough time talking about sex in general and this makes it almost impossible to get the information of birth control, condom, sexually transmitted diseases through to pre teens and teens. Teens have heard…
Do you honestly believe that everyone around you is practicing safe sex? According to a sex survey taken by the leading condom brand, Durex, in 2005, 51% of adults in America have had unprotected sex without knowing their partner’s sexual history. So what’s the big deal about having safe sex, you ask? That’s simple. Safe sex can save lives because I don’t believe that anyone could possibly have a body to “die” for. Safe sex can be the best kind of sex.…
Of course for everyone sitting here in front of me (teenagers) most of your main concerns would be to get pregnant or getting someone pregnant right? It is true that is a something that you should be aware of but having a baby is not the end of the world, hearing the words “you're pregnant” doesn't mean your life is over but today there are over 30 different types of sexual diseases out there and statistics show that around 30% of them are un-cureable which means you are stuck with them for the rest of your life. So when you are told that you have a sexual disease you legally have to tell every sexual partner that you have which can be very embarrassing and affect you socially. While it may be fun to sleep around at this age it is a much better option to wait until you are married.…
Although these scenarios may sound silly at first, they employ much of the same logic that many parents and schools use when it comes to issues involving teenagers and sex. How many times have you heard the adage: "Kids are going to have sex; it's better that they are protected and practice safe sex." Safe sex? What does that mean? In today's society, it is an unfortunate truth that safe sex has become somewhat of an oxymoron. Sex in the 1990s can be debilitating and even deadly. Further, sexually active teenagers face serious emotional issues as well. The fact remains, however, that no matter what method one uses to "protect" oneself, nothing--aside from abstinence--can assuredly prevent one from catching sexually transmitted diseases or…
Sexual intercourse among adolescents has become a prevalent activity, which can produce life long consequences. Adolescence is a time when individuals are striving to define themselves and seek independence regardless of emotional and physical maturity (Brown & Witherspoon, 2002). It is during this time when adolescents may be especially susceptible to depictions of sexual content in the media. It should prompt health care providers, namely the advanced practice nurse, to examine what can be done to prevent or delay sexual behavior among adolescents for their own benefit and their partner’s (Hall, Holmqvist & Sherry, 2004).…
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