There is no doubt that there are many different points of views when it comes to same-sex relationships, and today we will discuss this controversial topic. But first, what is a same sex relationship? A same-sex relationship is defined by Wikipedia as “A same-sex relationship can take on many forms, from romantic and sexual, to non-romantic close relationships between two persons of the same gender.” (same-sex relationship) Same-sex relationships have been frowned upon by the church since the beginning of time but have recently come a long way to becoming socially accepted. Ignorance is bliss; or is it? Undoubtedly when speaking about same-sex relationships, it is the gateway to many misconceptions, stereotypes, violence, and many times leads to self destruction.
One huge misconception that people have created when it comes to same-sex relationships is that it is “something new” or of “this new generation”. This is wrong; same –sex relationships have been around since biblical dates; as a matter of fact, the bible damns homosexuals to hell to spend the rest of eternity as a punishment for homosexual activities, and demands sure death of the violators of God’s law. “You shall not lie with a male as one lies with a female; it is an abomination.” (Leviticus 18:22-23) “If there is a man who lies with a male as those who lies with a woman, both of them have committed a detestable act; they shall surely be put to death.” (Leviticus 20:13) “Or do you not know that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals”. (1 Corinthians 6:9) Research has found that in a few ancient and medieval societies, erotic love bonds were created between an experienced warrior and their apprentice in countries such as Greece and Japan because it was believed that this love bond between the two would make them fight harder and with greater determination. As we all know same sex relationship has been going on for a long period of time now, most people think that just because you are gay, you are different from everybody else. Even though being gay comes with some disadvantages, you still have the same rights as everybody else. Many people think that just because you are gay or lesbian, you shouldn’t be able to adopt any kids. Well facts shows that Gay couples all around the world either have or would like to have children. Just because you are gay does not mean you have to give up your desire to have children. There are several options available to you including adoption, foster parenting or even artificial insemination (of course with a consenting female). Different states and countries have different laws, so be sure to do you research before you take this big step. There are already thousands of children living in gay couple households. The 2000 U. S. Census reports 33% of female same-sex couple’s households and 22% of male same-sex couple’s households already have at least one child under the age of 18 living at home. According to the American Psychological Association Policy Statement on Sexual Orientation, Parents, & Children, "there is no reliable evidence that homosexual orientation per se impairs psychological functioning. Second, beliefs that lesbian and gay adults are not fit parents have no empirical foundation. The American Psychological Association also states "Research suggests that sexual identities (including gender identity, gender-role behavior, and sexual orientation) develop in much the same ways among children of lesbian mothers as they do among children of heterosexual parents". There is no conclusive evidence that homosexuality is linked to one's environment. In other words, growing up in a gay couple household will not "make" a child gay. Different states in which it is aloud for a married same sex couple to adopt would be: Alabama, Arizona, California, Connecticut, Georgia, Alaska,...
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