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Why Should A Mom Abandon Her Kid?
There’s some reasons why a mother might abandon her kid but if there ain’t a reason for a mother to leave her kid like if they don’t have a dad that kid is going be on it’s own for a while. The mother should think twice before she gets pregnant and if she wants to then she needs to learn that you have take care of your child until he or she is 18. When i hear that a mother abandons her kid just makes me furious and sad that the kid doesn't have a mom to help him through thick and thin. Children that lives in a household will be hard for them to not have a mother that will help them through life. Firstly if a mother is going to abandon her kid she needs to give a full thought about it before she does it. Maternal abandonment leaves the children …show more content…
Widows, widowers, and poor married couple with financial troubles also abandoned children, but usually believing that their decision was temporary[1]. I agree with this because if you're poor you might not have enough money for you child but still you don't need to abandon it give your kid to someone that you trust and when you get back on your feet again and then get your child back. But if you're a widow or widower then i get that you are trying to not think about your spouse. The child who has been abandoned by his mother develops low self esteem, his thinking is that his mom didn’t love him, she left me, so this means not lovable he experiences confusion and asks questions about why his mother left him, and he feels guilt believing that he did something so bad that it made her leave him behind[3]. He shouldn’t feel this way about his mom she the one who made the decision and left him so he shouldn't be blaming himself for her stupid mistakes. She should be arrested and go to prison for what she did to her 18 month old child. There's good reasons why you abandoned your child but some has bad reasons why they abandoned their

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