Family Systems Theory is an ideal lens to view childhood trauma and related posttraumatic stress disorder as it holds the individual as part of a larger, interconnected system rather than other theories that establish the family as different, individual units. All members of a family have linked lives and the success, health, and well being of each family member is connected to that of other members (Berger, 2014). The dissolution of a marriage ultimately results in the separation of the familial unit and a change in the family dynamic. This type of trauma, whether the divorce is amicable or not, is an example of sudden loss and creates stress which interferes with normal development (Hess & Camara, 1979). Bowen theorized …show more content…
For example, the five-year-old of a recently divorced couple may exhibit signs of posttraumatic stress if he or she suddenly refuses to play with children of the opposite sex, reverts to bed wetting, or disengages at home. Developmentally, a child of his age eagerly elicits friendly peer interaction and while the occasional accident occurs, he should have complete control over his bowels (Berger, 2014). A change in his progressive development suggests a shift in life, which would lead a professional to examine the root cause. Upon further review, it is discovered that the father often blames the mother for the divorce and frequently speaks in front of the young boy about the pain and anguish his mother caused. The young boy’s psychosocial needs are not being met when his father belittles his mother and suggests his son stop visiting with her. While the divorce was centered on the relationship of the parents, the family unit as a whole was shocked, resulting in a complete fallout and multiple stressors. Toxic and frequent stressful situations like divorce are often strung out over months or years, which further prolongs the stress, emotional instability, and lack of …show more content…
Continuing with Systems Theory, relational anxiety further shows that posttraumatic stress is not only a family issue but is of immediate concern as it has migrated from the primary source, a parent or family member, and has infiltrated a secondary source, a child. Unfortunately, children are at a high risk of exposure to intimate partner violence. Although it is most common for children to be direct witnesses of male on female partner violence, the stress they feel may stem from the mother’s traumatic response, as the bond between mother and child is more prevalent in IPV cases (Levendosky, Bogat, & Martinez-Toryeya, 2013). Re-experiencing symptoms of the traumatic event, a clear sign of posttraumatic stress disorder, is often seen in children beginning around 3 years old (Stover & Berkowitz, 2005). Research found that younger children, compared to older children, are more susceptible to experience relational stress due to their emotional and physical dependence on the mother. If the mother exhibits signs of posttraumatic stress, the severity of relational stress is of concern much more than timing or frequency of traumatic symptoms (Levendosky et. al., 2013). Findings suggest the younger relational trauma is experienced, the greater effect it