Summary Of Sex Lies And Conversation By Deborah Tannen

According to the report of divorce rate, that more than 50 percent of circumstance divorce rate amount to millions of case in the United State every year. The reason for that problems are husband and wife actively addicted to drug, alcohol or withholding sex; however, the biggest problem of divorce is the women and the men failed in conversation, they miss understanding between husband and wife. According to Deborah Tannen, ''Sex, Lies, and Conversation'' that she explained the women and the men are different between biologically and inherently. The men are really good at communicating, frequently offering ideas and anecdotes but the women like to talk more at home, they always complaining about their husbands was focused not on tangible inequities, they just care about the company and focused on communication.
The problems in here, they do not want to talk each other to explain what they really expect it to be. Whenever the men going home rather they just go to sleep or no want to talk because even when they try to argue, the women will talk about her topic of view if the men show his new topic, the women will get mad at the men. As an example how do you think when a husband and a wife slept in the separate bedroom and slipped into separate life, here I know for sure that the men just go home to take a nap after a busy day in work and the women will feel betrayed, hurt and angry because their husband does not want to talk, to share and to rebuild a relationship with their wife. But the women did not know when they are quiet is that time he is trying to concentrate on what she was saying. The author was trying to experiment about listen to body languages and the result is the women make more listener-noise and the men were being trying to experiment about listen to body language and the result is the women perceive such responses as belittling and