Skills of Good Speaking

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The Skills of Good Speaking
• Art of Conversation
• Public Speaking
• Job Interview
Art of Conversation
• Do’s of Conversation
• Don’ts of Conversation
Do’s of Conversation
• Listen more than you talk.
• Come to an occasion armed with topics at the ready. • Tailor the conversation to the listener.
• Take your turn
• Think before you speak.
Don’ts of Conversation
• Don’t interrupt.
• Don’t talk to only one person when conversing in a group. • Don’t engage in “one-upping.
• Don’t overshare.
Things Not to Say
• “Am I boring you?”
• “Huh?” “What?” “Say What?” “Eh?” • “Actually, you should say ‘between you and me,” not ‘between you and I.’” • “Stop me if I’ve told you this story before…” The Number One Rule of Conversation: Be Natural

Public Speaking
Public Speaking
• Definition
• Speaking Opportunities
• Similarities between PS and Conversation
• Differences between PS and Conversation
• Speech Communication Process
• Factors to be Considered During Speaking
Public Speaking
• Public speaking is the process of speaking to a group of people in a structured, deliberate manner intended to inform, influence, or entertain the listeners. • It is closely allied to "presenting", although the latter has more of a commercial advertisement connotation. Speaking Opportunities

• At work
• Selling your ideas
• Technical presentations
• Customer Presentations and Reviews
• Daily Life
• At University Campus
• At Public Meeting
Similarities between PS and Conversation
• Organize your thoughts
• Giving someone directions to your house
• Tailor your message to the audience
• Your 5 year old asks you why do people lie • Your 14 year old asks you why do people lie • Your 22 year old asks the same question
• Telling a story for maximum impact
• Don’t tell the “punch line” of a story first • Adapting to listener feedback
• Watch for non-verbal feedback – looks of confusion, looks of pain or hurtfulness  
Differences between PS and Conversation
• PS is more structured
• Usually time limited
• Questions not allowed to interrupt the speech, • usually left for at end (time permitting) • PS requires more formal language
• No slang, jargon or bad grammar
• Speeches should be something special so that they qualify as life events and are remembered • PS requires a different method for delivery
• More formal delivery
• No vocalized pauses – “uh”, “ah”, “um” • Don’t use stock phrases repeatedly – “you know”, “basically”, “I mean” The Speech Communication Process
• Speaker - speech communication starts here
• Message - whatever is communicated
• Channel – means by which a message is communicated • Listener – the receiver of the communicated message • Feedback – comes in many forms and must be understood • Interference - anything impeding the communication of the message • Situation – the time and place of occurrance

Factors to be Considered
• Audience
• Speech
Analyzing the Audience
• Good speakers are audience-centered
• Primary purpose of a speech is to get a desired response...
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